Oct 16, 2018

CONFIDENCE IS SIMPLY TRYING, IT'S NOT TOO COMPLEX

Confidence is not that hard to achieve, actually you can have it now. Confidence is simply trying, it has no deeper meaning. People who have a lot of confidence are simply tryers, they will try over and over again until they succeed, they weren't afraid to fail, they weren't afraid to humiliate themselves. If you want to become more and more confident... just try, try something new, try something different, don't be afraid to embarrass yourself, don't be afraid to go further and seek for a new unchartered territory. The truth is... there is no harm in trying, there is only growth, there is no harm in losing... you will only discover a new knowledge that will be useful in the future. Lose over and over again, that is how to gain confidence, that is how to become immortal. If you're no longer afraid to lose then you will become creative, all of your fears will subside. You will become faster, more creative and resourceful, you will turn the impossible to possible. It feels like confidence will come to you naturally.

Just keep trying, have fun trying, have fun failing. Failing is no different from winning, if you fail you will learn a lesson... it's like you also win. Don't be afraid to fail, don't be afraid to lose, so what if you lose? is it the end of the world if you lose? are you going to become blind if you lose? it's your ego that makes it even more painful. If losing means nothing to you then it will really mean nothing, you will feel free, you will experience that absolute freedom. Your confidence will become bigger and bigger if you're not afraid of rejection and humiliation. Just try your hardest and don't be afraid to go down, so what if they laugh? so what if they criticize you? those are just words, it's nothing. Always remember that you're not born in this world to become less confident. The reality is... people don't know anything about losing, they thought that it's just a painful feeling that's whey they were so afraid to face it, they were so afraid to try. They don't know that not trying is even more painful, not knowing the truest answer is misery and chaos. You will always ask yourself everyday what could have happen if you only try.

Try it now, it doesn't matter if your skills were not enough, it doesn't matter if you get embarrassed so bad. Because you can try again next time, you can always try again, you can try over and over again until you finally gain that confidence, until you're finally no longer afraid of losing and you will just laugh at it every time you experienced it. Try a million times, don't be afraid to get tired, one day what you want will fall into your hands, always remember that victory belongs to the most persevering. Be patient, study yourself, study what your strengths are and use all of it for every situation.

If you're afraid of something just try it. Try it and you will learn that it's not hard, trying and taking actions is your ticket to freedom, it will free your mind from worries, you will feel loose, you will do everything to succeed. You will feel like everything you are doing is right and even if you made a mistake... you will just ignore it because you knew that it's all just part of the process.

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