You keep losing, you keep failing, you keep feeling bad because you don't know that you have the ability to think right. You don't know that you can create the perfect and right images in your head. The problem with you is you're based on the results, your thinking was dependent on the past and you're not opening your mind to a new reality and better possibility. Focus on what you need to do now to make your job faster and get results better, as simple as that. It doesn't matter if you really win big time, what matters is you're taking it one step at a time and you don't mind the thoughts and actions that doesn't really matter. It's all about the discipline, it's simply making yourself better one day at a time. There is nothing wrong in believing in yourself. Never care about your past mistakes just try again today and forget the past, past is past, there is nothing you can do about it anymore.
STOP WANTING TO BE LIKE
Wanting to be liked is a negative thing, it's not the right way of thinking. You do something because you don't want someone to get mad at you. If you're doing something just to impress someone then you are on the wrong path. You don't need people to like you, the more you do it the more you will have a difficulty expressing yourself. At the end of the day you don't need their approval, you only need to approve yourself. Because people will never make you better even if they like you, they will also never make you worse if they hate you. What they say about you should not go into your head because it will only affect your feelings, it will only make you unproductive because you will feel something about it and it will affect your ability to work hard. Because if you will always look for the impression of others towards you then you will never be able to express your true feelings, you will become a fake person and all of your actions will become scripted.
HOLD THE PRESSURE LONGER
There is no growth without pressure but most of the time you stay away from pressure once you felt it. You need to feel it longer, hold it longer and force your mind to think that it's good, force your mind to stay calm, feel neutral so that you will be able to make better decisions. Never let pressure break you, make it change you into a better person who is stronger and calmer. Feel the pressure and move anyway, stop panicking, stop rushing, stop wishing for a better situation... just push and never give up. The one who will succeed is the one who can hold the fire long enough and not get burned by it. Because the reality is pressure creates diamonds and if you want to shine then you need to feel the pressure longer. Feel it but don't be scared of it, if you can't avoid being scared then just stay calm while pushing forward. Pressure can never kill you, it will only make you panic and force you to make mistakes or do nothing at all. Never let it immobilize you, feel the pressure and use it to make yourself alert and active. Learn to move right while feeling the pressure, learn to stay calm while being frightened. Always remember that you have nothing to lose, you just need to experience fighting and doing what is best for you. Just think better, force your mind to think about winning and moving and you will become unstoppable. Just feel every ounce of fear and pain, get use to it and enjoy it as much as you can, feel it and it will get easier. Because the truth is... pressure gets stronger because you're not in the moment, you wanted to get out and escape it that's why it gets harder and scarier, you need to learn how to stay calm and stop worrying about losing or making a mistake.
POSITIVE THINKING MANIFESTS BETTER SITUATION
If you are thinking negatively and always complaining about your life then you will attract negative and ugly circumstances but if you're feeling good and thankful all the time then you will attract positive things and opportunities. It's easy to think negatively because it's your default but if you will just try to change your mind and ignore the negative thoughts then a change will happen very fast. Learn to discipline yourself to think the right way, always guard your thoughts and never let the unwanted thoughts stay in your mind for a long time. Of course it will show up every now and then but you need to learn how to kill it fast and the only way to do that is think positive and better thoughts. Learn how to assign a positive thought, it can be money or love, it can be a happy image or a dream. Whatever positive thought you can think of, think about it all the time and learn to record it forever as your default thought.
BE THANKFUL A LITTLE BIT
Stop rushing your life and take time to become thankful a little bit. Life is not a race, it's a marathon, the one who can endure a lot of challenges will win and will live happier. It's easy to become a negative and complaining person but all it does is make your life worse. You need to learn how to become thankful, just say thank you to everything that's happening in your life may it be worse or better. Learn to see the blessings in your life and stop complaining everyday. Practice gratitude and your life will change. Train yourself everyday to look for little things where you can be thankful of, there is a minimum of 20 things in your life, I assure you that. Even if you're the poorest person in the world you can still look for thing where you can be thankful. It's all about being appreciative and not comparing yourself to others.
SHRINK THE INFORMATION YOU'RE CONSUMING
In order to become successful or better, you need to quit thinking too much and that will only happen if you will try to shrink the information that you're absorbing. You need to quit thinking about people that doesn't matter, quit social media, stop spending too much time on your cellphone, stop watching news. You need to become a single minded person, focus on success, focus on greatness and your life will change, as simple as that. There is a lot of information roaming around that will try to poison your mind, it's your duty to protect your mind and
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