If you want to become a winner then you need to get losers out of your life. What is a definition of a loser? Someone who is needy, someone who always need something from you but will never help you in return, someone who is toxic and backstabbing you. Someone who is lazy and cannot carry himself, someone who always needs help even if he can do it by himself, someone who is a liability, someone who feels so entitled but has no value at all. Someone who keeps on wasting your time. A loser is someone who is pulling you down and doesn't make you feel better at all. You need to eliminate all the losers in your life if you wanted to win. Fly alone if you need to, eagles fly alone. Become a lone wolf if you need to but never let those losers make you feel stuck again. Never let those losers derail your progress because they will make your life miserable. Even if they're your friends or relatives, you have to make a stand to stop rubbing elbows with them or else you will become a loser in life too. It's not about being mean, it's about loving yourself, why will you associate yourself with people who has no value, why will you join a company that is making you weak and useless? you will never grow if you keep on walking with the chickens. You need to stop being too emotional and stay away from people that are not making you feel better. The right people will come along, the right group will open itself to you if you're making yourself better everyday. Learn to know your value, value yourself and never let yourself leave no choice that's why you join people that are not giving you any room for growth. If they want to become a loser forever then let them be but never think that you can change them and carry them with your journey because they will only become a liability, they will just stunt your growth and make you stressed even more. Define who is the biggest loser in your circle and stay away from him, identify who is the weakest link and never give him any attention. Who is the one who's so lazy and pulling you down? never talk to him again.
He always need something, he will only call you when he needs you, he is not taking care of himself and his family, he is not doing something to improve his situation, all he wants is to feel good and get something from somebody.. that's a loser. That loser will only make your life difficult so you better stop giving him any attention. He will make drams, he will backstab you but that's ok, never care about that loser, treat him cold so that he will leave your life completely.
YOU DON'T NEED TO WIN TO BECOME A WINNER
If someone is working hard, trying to make himself better or trying to make a group better by giving his all then he is not a loser, he is a real winner. Even if he is not winning, if he is trying to improve and make progress everyday without disturbing someone then he is a winner. If he is not a liability, if he is not a toxic person and not making dramas then he is a winner. You don't need awards, a lot of money, fame or cars to become a winner... you just need to become an inspiration a little bit, you just need to stop pulling people down, you just need to carry yourself and push harder to make your life a little bit better everyday. If you're so in love with the process and you really trust yourself then you're a winner already. If you're intention is to get better and make the people around you feel good about your presence because you're such a big relief then you're already a winner. Just stop doing the losing habits and you're already a winner, focus on the winning habits. What does a winner do? he works insanely hard, he never waste time, he never waste the time and energy of others.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU TRUST A CLOWN
Your life will go to a downward spiral. You trust someone whom you know is lazy, unreliable, stupid, broke and feeling superior... this will make your life miserable. Don't trust someone who is lazier than you, don't give any power to someone who is not making you better because both of you will drown in misery and loneliness. If you're better than someone then stop feeling so inferior, you need to step up and do what is much better for your life. If you knew you're doing the right thing then be confident and do it your way. Stop trusting a clown because he will pull you down and will become a derail to your progress, he will stop you from growing. You have to learn the harsh truths of life, it's about associating yourself with the right people that has no intention of pulling you down. If you feel stronger with someone then he is the right person, if you feel that he is lifting you up then it's good to associate yourself and be friends with him. Stop trusting a clown that has no assurance of getting the job done. Stop trusting a loser because he will never make you a winner, he will drag you down even though you're helping him to get up, he will bring bad luck to your life.
NEVER CHANGE YOUR MIND
Just because they're telling you that you're no good then you will believe in them an will never take risks nor execute your ideas. The secret ingredient is to get a little bit better each day, watch your actions, thoughts and habits and eliminate everything that is not helping you at all. There is something you can do to put yourself on a better position to succeed, focus on that and repeat it a million times, as simple as that. Most of the the time you are wasting your precious time and that's why you're not evolving. It's easy to become successful nowadays because most people are just wasting their time, they're not improving. Watch yourself carefully and see where your time goes.
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