Nothing is hard, everything is easy. It gets hard because you're too attached with the future, you're too attached with the results. You're worrying about what hasn't happened yet. You need to stay in the moment and stop overthinking, enjoy the present moment and let go... that's how to make everything easier. It's not that you will get lazy or live like a bum, you will still work hard and go for what you want but stop judging every situation when you don't like what you are seeing. You need to feel good all the time, you need to feel blesse when you're working hard and stop complaining about the things that you have no control with. You need to focus on what you want and try to get there as fast as possibly you can. You don't need to rush but never slack off. You need to push yourself to the limits but never make it a big deal whenever you are tired. You are suppose to get tired, stop complaining and just do the right thing for you. Put yourself on a better position, take it one step at a time. You have to create motivation by yourself whenever you feel unmotivated. It's just a feeling, never care about how you feel and just keep pushing... that's how to make everything easier. The problem with you is you feel so entitled, you feel so special that's why when things aren't going your way... you always freak out.
YOU HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO WORK HARDER
If you will not work hard then your life will become harder but if you work harder your life will get easier. Make yourself uncomfortable all the time through hard work and you will have a better life in the future, as simple as that. But most people are always looking for an easier life today, they're addicted to comfort that's why they have a miserable life. Hard work is really not that hard if you will be appreciative and feel lucky that you can still work hard. Most people can't work hard anymore for whatever reasons, some are too lazy and some doesn't have the strength to do it. Be happy if you can work hard because it only means you are still strong. And the reality is you're not going to be strong forever, time will come and you will get weaker. So while you still have the capability of working hard... enjoy it and never complain about it. Just start fast and then follow through, forget if you are tired, forget if you don't like what you are doing and just do it. Learn to force yourself to become appreciative of your actions and you will feel lighter and happier.
IT'S ALL IN THE MIND
you're judging every situation as hard but the truth is it isn't. You're just rushing the process and wanted to end the suffering right away, you don't believe that you can win that's why it is hard. You don't believe in the work you do. Your mind is what makes the situation harder not the situation itself. If you will think and believe that it's easy then you will start doing it, you will continue until you're done. Your mind will make you feel what you are thinking. The thoughts you are thinking will control how your body reacts. So stop thinking about negative things if I were you and start cultivating positive thoughts and affirmations. make your mind strong and you will have a very strong life, you can survive anything, you will be scared but you still have the confidence to think right because you knew you can withstand any kind of storm.
STOP EXPECTING FOR RESULT RIGHT AWAY
You're expecting too much after working for so soft. You think you're entitled of something big even though you're acting small. Stop expecting too much if all you do is look for the results and didn't push yourself to the limits. You need to be realistic here, wake up, stop feeling so special even if your work is so mediocre. If you want to expect massive results then take massive actions, something that most people can't match. You need to focus on the grind, focus on the hustle and stop expecting too much. The universe will give you what you deserve anyway so stop being needy of the results because it's only making your life harder than what it use to be. Kill the hope and revive the accountability to work as hard as you can. There's no control in expectations, there is only control on taking actions.
START WITH SOMETHING
Just start, start with something, no matter how unsure you are, no matter what you feel... just start because it will make your life really easier. Even if you're not sure that you're going to win, just start. Even if you know you will make mistakes and you know you can't do it... just start. Follow through after starting, you never know what will happen next, there is a big chance that you can do it because you're already building some confidence in yourself. Starting will make you feel better, it will increase the trust in yourself, it will give you high amount of self esteem. I was a shy kid before but I want to get a girl so badly, I just start asking for someone's number randomly and never mind if the girl was beautiful or not, it started to give me confidence and soon I was already dating the hottest girl in Pegasus.
Starting will make you better than a person who is talented but not exerting an effort. Start fast so you can do a lot of things, start now even if you feel so tired or lazy. Stop making excuses and start building habits to attract success. You need to wake up, stop sleeping and start executing.
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