The party was over, you drink a lot and spend all of your money. You bang a hot chick and then she left you. You already ate a lot of food, you didn't work for a week because you said you're just going to rest. What now? what's your life now? did you really enjoy it? where is the momentum now, are you feeling more motivated now? the answer is no right? The lesson is no matter how much fun you have, no matter how many pleasures you experience you will still go back to your normal life. You will still feel sad, you will still feel that there is something missing. You will still complain about traffic, you will still attack the government for not giving you your benefits, you will still complain to your boss about your salary. The conclusion is... the problem is you.
After buying that gadget, after trying to impress people, after pretending to be rich and great, after hating on somebody, after watching that stupid netflix movie... what now? what will you do now? the reality is nothing can make you happy permanently, you need to work, you need to grind, you need to push yourself to become a better person. Life is an inner work, it's not about what you consume, it's not about the external things... it's about trying to make your mentality powerful, it's about trying to tame your negative emotions and learning how to accept them whenever you are feeling them. If you can just learn how to become appreciative then 80 percent of your problems will shrink.
DON'T WISH FOR A COMFORTABLE LIFE
The problem with people is they want an easy and comfortable life. Life has no definition like that. Life is hard, if it i's not hard then it is not life. That's the price of being alive. This is a one time thing, you need to appreciate that you are still alive and can do a lot of things, in return you need to endure all the problems and challenges. Don't ever complain in life. Who the hell do you think you are? you're not special, nobody is special so stop complaining and start living. If you really want a better life then work and persevere, make sacrifices and stay committed to your goals. Always think that you're not a star, you need to work hard every single day in order to have a pretty decent life. Stop feeling entitled of something you didn't work for. You're not a chosen one, you're just an ordinary person that needs to fulfill his duties. If you want to become a star, if you want to become special then make sure you are willing to make big time sacrifices. Make sure your focus cannot be distracted by anything.
LIFE CAN GET EASIER
Life can get easier if you are appreciative and not taking things seriously. Play life like game, you just give yourself a chance to win, dream big and do big. There is nothing wrong with a bum life but don't ever complain if you're taking that route, don't ever get jealous with others if you're not working hard as hell. You can live a lazy life but don't ever hate somebody who is winning. Life can get easier if you will just accept that it is hard and keep pushing forward anyway. Just do what you need to do. all you have to do is be thankful of what you have and make it bigger everyday, try to grow, try to take it one step at a time and don't rush anything. The problem with people is they want something fast and if they can't get it, they're acting like a victim, they're playing the weak game, they're complaining and hating too much, they're looking for someone to blame. The only one to blame is yourself and nobody else. You have an ugly life because you have an ugly attitude, you lack the discipline, you don't have the willpower.
It's ok to wish for a better life but you have to work for it. And if you can't get what you want.. stop feeling needy because it's not the only thing that can make you happy. Happiness is about what thoughts you entertain, your quality of life depends on the quality of your thoughts. You will only win if you will stop looking for an easy life, just accept your life and try to make it better one step at a time, you don't need to become fast or great, you need to be consistent and dedicated. Stop feeling so special and entitled because it's the key to weakness. Go after the challenges of life and face it with fear, it's ok to feel scared, there is no such thing as someone who is fearless. The strong people feel fear all the time but they still take actions. They're not scared to fail, they're not scared to humiliate themselves.
IT'S OK TO FEEL WEAK
it's ok to feel weak, lazy and unmotivated but don't ever go with that feelings. Don't just sit there and watch TV the whole day, you still need to take actions and make something happen. It is what it is, life is hard, it's not going to get easier but you can still feel happier despite of its difficulties. Just move forward and do something positive, that's the only way to beat that loneliness and laziness, you need to move, it's ok if you are slow, it's ok if you're behind but don't ever stop, keep fighting, keep moving forward and you are good. Weakness is the path to strength, keep feeling weak but still move, that drama will end anytime soon if you go against your emotions.
Because weakness is part of life, there is no strength without weakness but you have to keep the fight alive, it's ok to feel weak but it's not ok to live like a chicken. Keep showing up, do your responsibilities, keep fighting even if you're not feeling ok. Stop overthinking and just move, you need to make yourself busy, you need to stay in motion if you want to change your momentum. At the end of the day you will only feel stuck if you're not doing anything. If you keep on moving forward then you will be alright, as simple as that.
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