We all see the mistakes everywhere. A wrong spelling, wrong grammar, a missed shot by a star player, a wrong call by a referee, a mistaken identity, a wrong step, failures here and there. Mistakes doesn't matter anymore, it's up to you if you're going to get hard on yourself. We see the mistakes everywhere and most people doesn't care about it anymore. This is a generation where you are very free to express yourself, create your own brand, create your own idea and not get punish for it. Some people are even a mistake itself but they're still thriving. You are free to make a mistake, don't worry about the future, don't worry about the judgement of other people because they don't matter at all.
THE MORE MISTAKES THE MORE YOU LIVE
Making mistakes and facing your fears makes you alive. It's because you're getting better and better, you will be surprised that you were able to do something that you are scared of, facing your fears feels like freedom and growth, how good was that? Making mistake for trying something good is not a sin, if you're not violating any law then what are you being afraid of? Making mistakes is the pathway to greatness, fail as much as you can and learn from it. See yourself growing and getting better, you will have more experience, you will feel more pain that will toughen you. You will feel alive and real because you're not hiding from possibilities. You will feel so free because you're not afraid of the future, you're welcoming every experience. Just play with your life, you can try as much as you can and nothing will castrate you, you are free like a bird, nobody can catch you, you just need to believe in yourself even if the odds were against you. You have nothing to prove so stop pressuring yourself.
THE REASON WHY YOU FEEL JEALOUS
Admit it or not you're getting jealous with other people who are succeeding, the reason you feel that way is because you're not taking actions. You don't have a goal, or maybe you have but you're not serious about it. You feel jealous because you're watching them instead of watching your own life. You are living thoughtlessly instead of being in the moment and embrace what life throws at you. You have to start now and do something that will feed your soul. Chase your own dream and give everything you've got. It's never too late, it's never too early. The right time is now, live your own journey so you won't have time for other people's business. The reason why you're envy is because you're too focused on them, you're not focusing on your own life. Make it a habit to focus on your own business only, never mind them. It's just a matter of concentration, concentrate on the bigger things and never major on minor things, as simple as that. You have to just take the first step and try to enjoy your life and journey as much as you can. Push a little further, go further and further, it's like climbing a mountain, it's like playing a video game. When it's game over you have to try again, whenever you fail, stand up and try again, it's a pretty simple cycle, the good news is you get better every time you try again, you just can't see nor feel it but you will experience it later.
MISTAKES WILL ONLY MAKE YOU GROW
Make a mistake if the intention is good like growing a business, learning something, proposing something or creating your own idea. Don't make a mistake like selling dugs or impregnating your girlfriend. Make a mistake that will lead to something much better, mistakes will only make you grow so don't be afraid of it. Keep making a lot of mistakes because it will give you a stronger mentality, especially if you detach from anything that is trying to make you feel bad like people blaming you, the outcome, feeling guilty about what you did etc. Just keep on trying because your willpower will find a way. Hard work itself is already a prize, everything else is just a bonus. Don't ever hesitate to take actions because moving forward is the best thing to do.
THE PEACE OF MIND IS THE PROCESS
Stick with the process if you want to have a peace of mind. The reason why you're always stressed, depressed or worried is because you're always thinking about the results, you're too damn concerned about the future and you're not locking yourself in the present moment. Never care about the order of your actions, what matters is you keep moving forward all the time and you're not wasting any seconds. Take the next best step available and never hold yourself back, as simple as that. Remember that results will only make you happy for a few hours or days but it will start to feel normal and plain, the real peace of mind is when you're doing what you are suppose to do, do something positive, do the things that are really important to you and you will feel much better. You will start to have a peace of mind. Because the reason why you feel so weak and helpless is because you're too worried about what you want to happen, you're not focusing on what you can control that's why your mind is messed up.
STOPPING MEANS STARTING
All you need to do to become successful in upgrading your life is stay disciplined and focused, that's it, there's nothing else to worry about. If you want to go to a different level then your focus should be on a different level too. You need to stop all the BS in your life. Once you stop procrastinating you will start working harder. Once you stop all your vices you will start to build the right habits. Once you stop acting like a kid you will start to act like a grown man. All you have to do is stop all the habits that are making you stuck, as simple as that. It's not hard, it's too easy if you will just watch all of your thoughts and actions. Concentrate on things that will lift you up. Eliminate at least one bad habit that is eating a lot of your time and you will see that you are starting to get productive.
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