Because you're judging yourself and you're anticipating the future. You want to be right all the time, you want a perfect execution and that is unlikely to happen, you're a perfectionist but you're not taking actions and that's why you feel so stuck all the time. You are worried about what people are going to say, you don't want to take the blame, you don't want to get criticized and that's why you don't want to try. You need to change your mentality from being a watcher to a doer, stop playing it safe and allow yourself to take actions and pull the trigger. Nothing is wrong if your intention is right. Any idea is a correct idea if someone will make a stand for it. It's not hard to take actions, you will just take the first step and that's it. The problem with you is you want approval, you want to be right all the time, you want the rewards right away. That kind of mentality will never make you progress, you have to make a lot of mistakes and learn to acknowledge it, you have to just do it and never mind what people are going to say against you if you fail. Taking the first step is easy as 123 just do it and forget about the embarrassment.
JUST PURE GRIND AND HUSTLE
Most people doesn't want to try this technique because they're too afraid to get tired. The truth is... if you don't want to get tired you will never become successful. You need to make it as your culture, be ashamed of yourself if you're not grinding, do something positive for your life every now and then and stay committed. With hustling you are free to do anything, nothing can restrict you, you can become very creative, you can have a lot of fun. Hustling will make you a very strong person because you will only depend on yourself, stop relying to others to do something for you and just simply grind and push yourself to the limits. Hustling is yours, it can be your niche, most people doesn't want it because it's hard. Some people think they are hustling but the truth is they're not, it's a deep thing, you can only learn the true meaning of it if you will dig deeper and have an insane focus trying to get what you want. Hustling is a blessing, if you can still hustle all day long then you are very blessed because all of the best opportunities can be attracted to you, it's only just a matter of time before it come into your life.
LEARN TO DETACH FROM EVERYTHING
it will be easier if you will detach yourself from everything. Detach from the results, detach from what will people say, detach from the future. Free yourself from the outcome and just enjoy every step you take, it's a journey and not a destination. If you feel free, if you don't care about what's going to happen next then you will be able to express yourself honestly and you will attract better opportunities. You will become more creative and expressive, you will have a good time facing challenges, you will never feel worried because you will think that it's all just fun and games even though you are working hard and giving your very best.
STOP BEING ATTRACTED TO DRAMAS
two fighters trash talking to each other, a celebrity with mental health drama, a drug addict politician, war between two rich nations, a dog that lost his teeth... you're too in love with dramas and gossips that's why you can't take actions. Your time was being eaten by stupid information that's trying to poison your mind. You need to focus on what you're trying to achieve and avoid all the dramas on the internet. Watch yourself, watch what you are thinking and doing. You need to be aware if you're wasting time because it will become your habit and you will have a hard time pulling the trigger whenever you need to. Stop being attracted to dramas because all it does is make you a dumb person, it's not teaching you anything. It's only making you lazy and slow, you need to focus on taking the right actions so that you will become a better person.
COMPARE YOUR LIFE TO THE LIFE OF PEOPLE LIVING IN SLUMS
You will be able to realize that your life was too easy and comfortable. There is no reason to make dramas and become soft like others. You have everything yet you are wasting your precious time because you think you are entitled of something without having to work hard for it. Those people living in slums have nothing yet they manage to survive everyday and do the best they can to make their lives a little bit better. You're so ahead of them yet you're complaining too much. Stop being soft, if people living in slums can manage to survive everyday and work hard then you need to be ashamed of yourself if you're not giving your very best. You are lucky, stop wasting your luck and opportunities, you need to stand up and do what is best for you.
BELIEVE THAT YOU'RE ON A DIFFERENT LEVEL
believe that you're already great and do what great people do. You can't work hard because you don't believe that you're great and you don't believe that you can become great. You need to change your mentality, always feel that you're on a different level. Always think that what you're doing is something special. Think highly of yourself, increase your value and take your work seriously. You will create better results if you will think that you're good enough to do something magical. Believe that you're extraordinary and exert unbelievable efforts. What you feel and what you think will manifest into your life, if you will believe in yourself then the universe will believe in you. You will get what you think you deserve so you better raise your level of thinking.
BELIEVE IN THE POWER OF PUSHING
if you're not pushing then you're not evolving, as simple as that. Push now and pull something later, you will be able to get something if you're giving everything you've got. The reason why you can't get the results you want is because you're not using all of your energy to create, you're slacking off too much, stop pretending that you're working hard if you're really not.
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