The reason why you're having a hard time succeeding is because you're more worried about useless stuffs than worrying about your own good. You're too engaged with stupid stuffs and entertainment that doesn't even help you to grow, you're not focused on trying to build a brighter future. You easily got emotional with different things, issues, small problems, pettyness, etc. You're giving your time away for free instead of using it for your own growth and development. You're too sensitive about other people's lives, attitude, business etc. Your mind is always to be aware of what's going on around you and that's why you can't become successful in your life. You have to focus on your life if you want to become great, you have to focus on becoming a better version of yourself instead of minding other people's business. You have to focus on your own business only if you want to become better.
WORRY ABOUT THE MAJOR THINGS
The major things are your financial status, health status, mental condition and the important people in your life. If it's not about your health, relatives, friends or money then stop worrying about it. The problem with you is you're too concerned about different things that doesn't really matter at all. Worry about something you can't afford to lose, never worry about something that is very easy to replace. Because at the end of the day all of your problems were laughable, you're just making it a big deal that's why you're having a hard time accepting it. Worry about something that is very close to your heart, why worry about your enemies if you don't even like them? why will you worry about your manager if you're not even close to him? why will you worry about traffic if you're already living with it everyday? why will you worry about other people if you're not even related to them? worry only about the things that you love, never worry about other things that you cannot control. Because at the end of the day the truth is you're the only one who's hurting yourself because of your standards and sensitivity. You need to be tough if you want to survive, you need to stop being too emotional if you want to live longer. It is what it is, what will happen will happen. People will do what they want to do, you have to focus on your own life if you want to become stronger and feel in control. There is no control in trying to please or scare people, there is no control in trying to look great, just be yourself and never force everything to go your way. You can control some people for a while but they will never follow you forever. People want freedom, look at Hitler... he tried to control the world only to end up being a loser and dead.
TREAT EVERYTHING AS JOKE
Don't take life seriously, treat everything as a joke. Don't cry about something that is not life threatening, don't ever give energy to any situation that's really not of a big deal. You're the only one who's making it harder for yourself. The person disrespecting you is a joke, your abusive boss is a joke, your noisy neighbors are a joke, your problems are all joke, what you can't get is a joke, what's making you suffer is a joke. Life will become easier if you will not take it seriously. Give different meaning to different things and you will find out that it's your emotions that you create because of your sensitive judgements that's making you suffer more. If you can just accept everything that's happening around you without judging it negatively then you will become tougher, you will have more endurance, you will have an easier life. What makes it harder is because you're judging everything negatively, you want them to follow you, you want them to respect you, why will you want some respect from the people that you don't even like? treat everything as a joke, never give importance to everything that's very easy to lose and replace. The things that are hard to replace is your life and your love one's life. Focus on what you really love instead of trying to control everything that you can't really control forever. You can control something for now but not for long, trying to control everything is very energy draining. Allowing people to become mean and disrespectful to you without feeling weak about it is the real strength that you underestimate.
LIFE IS PRETTY BASIC
Life is not complex, it is pretty basic. You work hard and you will get what you want, you hate people and you will feel bad, you give more and you will get more, you feel needy and you will get nothing, you envy people and you will fail. Life will give you back what you constantly give, you will never get lost in life if you will stick with the basics. Just feel good about it, do the simplest things, focus on yourself, focus on loving your life and loving everything about it and you will get the same love back, sometimes even double. If you don't want to worry anymore about your life then stick with the basics, focus on what you love, focus on yourself, focus on getting better and be generous as much as you can. Don't make it hard on yourself, prioritize what you want to achieve and what you want to do and focus on it. You're thinking too much that's why you're struggling too much. Stop thinking about what other people are doing or saying, stop minding other people's business and just focus on trying to get better everyday, you will make fast improvements if you're focused on your journey. Stop feeling insecure, stop comparing yourself, stop thinking that you're better than others and that you need respect, stop feeling so entitled and you will have an easier life.
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