It's just a sound, the noisy neighbor, the disrespectful comments, the yelling and shouting, the critics, the voices you hear, the dog's bark, the late night conversations in the street, the sound of the stereo, the loud karaoke at 12am, the loud mufflers, the arguments, the people who were seeking for approval, the embarrassing comments from your professor, the sarcastic salesman... these are all sounds, these are all noises. It will only hurt you if you take it personally, if you don't give it any meaning then you will become powerful, make it meaningless and it will become weak. Embrace it, don't resist it, don't expect it, don't anticipate it, don't reject it, when it's already there just embrace it. Listen to it with all your hear, never try to fight it, never try to escape from it... listen to it and it will turn into silence. It's ok to feel bad about it but don't ever give it some meaning.
STAY CALM AND BREATHE
Staying calm while feeling the fire is the most powerful thing that you can do. Just stay calm, say nothing, do nothing and just breathe. Let the storm take care of itself, sometimes you don't need to weather the storm, you just need to watch it come and go, it can never harm you, everything is just a mental game. If something is badly trying to make you feel bad, fight back by being calm and stoic. As the saying goes, the clown will stop dancing if you stop watching, never feel anything about it, treat it like nothing and shift your focus to the more important thing.
STOP ACTING LIKE A VICTIM
You're not a victim, every time you complain you're only making your situation harder. You have to be a doer and not a victim if you want to have a better life. Because all the complaining does is make you weak, it's avoiding you from progressing, you have to be an executor, stop being soft, stop letting small and petty things bother you, you have to keep moving forward no matter what and do everything you can to make your situation a little bit better. Stop having a victim mindset, stop thinking that the world is unfair because it really is, the world will never become fair but you have to do whatever it takes to upgrade your life so you won't be on a victim mode for the rest of your life. Just do something, stop waiting, stop pointing fingers to others and take matters into your own hands, do everything you can to get what you want without doing any illegal activities. Make the things that you hate meaningless, never look at it, never try to change it and just go for your goals. Never judge any situation and continue to stay positive and committed to the most important things in your life.
DON'T REACT NO MATTER WHAT
Don't make a sound, don't show them you're angry, don't panic, don't rush, stop irritating yourself, don't be friends with them, don't please them, don't make a revenge. Just don't react, treat it like dead and it will have no power over you. Just breathe and learn how to feel yourself, feel your emotions while the unwanted things are happening. Stop thinking too much, stop thinking that it is unfair, just let it be. Turn yourself into a rock, stay still where you are and the person or thing you don't like will never make you feel anything. Don't react, reaction means giving it importance, it means you are being bothered by it. Make yourself a like a cold blooded stone that feels nothing. Even if you're so feeling stressed, always look at yourself and never ever give it any attention. All the reacting does is stop you from taking positive steps that will give you a better life, stop reacting to everything and just keep growing mentally, physically and financially. There are more important things to focus on, stop being a victim and just take actions.
YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE WHO IS STOPPING YOURSELF
Thinking that everything is a problem, thinking that you're not what you want because of him or her is only derailing your progress. You are the one who is stopping yourself because of your diva mentality, you're better than that, stay tough, be rough and just keep pressing on. What you are focusing on will be your reality, if you're focused on the small problems then that will be your world, but if you're focused on solutions and possibilities then you will become unstoppable. The choice is still yours, are you willing to take the harder path or the one that you have more control. The only thing that you can control is your decisions and actions, why even bother giving some time for things that will not even make you happier or stronger?
YOU CAN CHOOSE A BETTER PROBLEM
It's really up to you what problem will you choose, are you going to focus on how ugly you are? or are you going to focus on creating some money to make your looks better? are you going to focus on the noise of your neighbors or are yo going to focus on adversities that will make you stronger such as building your own business or anything that will give you something in the future? are you going to focus on hateful comments or are you going to focus on subjects that will make your mentality stronger? You need to focus on what will make you better, focus on better problems. Focus on paying a car loan or a house loan instead of focusing on your neighbor's dog shit. Focus on your own life, focus on something better, never give any time for something that doesn't even make you stronger and faster.
A better problem is something that will give you money, knowledge, experience or any advantage. Stop focusing on subjects, conversations, petty problems etc. You can create a new reality by choosing a better problem, it's all in the mind. If you can ignore useless subjects or people then you will be able to make your life extraordinary. Stop focusing on dramas, failures, past and anything that is avoiding you from taking massive actions. Take care of your time, take care of your mind, you will have more control if you will pick the right things that does really matter.
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