The reason why you're always scared and your fears won't go away is because you're not even moving, the trick to distinguish fear it just take one small step. Just do it, let it go, let yourself fly, stop acting like you can't do it, stop acting like a powerless victim that can't even take a single step. If you will just force yourself to take actions despite of feeling frozen, if you can just slap yourself to wake up then you will be able to create a momentum. You have to keep moving and never focus on what's stopping you, you have to be fast and be adaptive to your environment. Stop waiting, stop overthinking and just do it, there is something you can do if you will decide to stop being perfect and just go for it.
GET ADDICTED TO SMALL STEPS
The time for being slow, stupid and weak is over. It's time to get addicted to the process, get addicted to small steps, just do it. Never look for approval, never look for an inspiration and just do it. You are creative enough to make something happen. Creativity simply means having the ability to create, it's actions not the results. If you can drown yourself with the process then you will become unstoppable. Remember that life is a journey, you will feel much happier if you are moving instead of wishing for the results. Pull the trigger and never think about the future, focus on the now, focus on taking it inch by inch and never stop. Just keep going even if it is hard, just do it, trust the process and never give up. All it takes is your tenacity and willingness to go further.
BEING A PERFECTIONIST WILL MAKE YOU STUCK
Stop thinking about your identity. Stop trying to look cute and just execute. Your life will never change if you keep on thinking about greatness, dominance, fame, having a good self image or having a perfect record. Be willing to look dumb and foolish for trying something that you don't know. Just try it, embarrass yourself, allow yourself to hit the rock bottom. It's in the history of the books that all losers were perfectionists, they don't want to try, they don't want to take risks, all they want is a perfect route, they don't want to take the path less travelled because they were playing safe too much and that's why they can't take actions, that's why they were stuck on their nest trying to lay eggs or something. Stop being a chicken, you have wings but you can't fly. Stop being a talker and start being a doer.
NEVER AVOID FAILURE
Why will you avoid wisdom? failure is wisdom, it is a clue, it is a guide to success. The more you fail the better you become, yes it is painful but it is true that if there is no pain there is no gain. There is no free thing in this world including experience and knowledge, you have to pay the price, you have to endure difficulties and challenges if you want to advance. Become a failure everyday and never stick on that grid, try to move a little bit closer to your dream bit by bit.
THE ABILITY TO CHOOSE WHAT IS NEEDED
Procrastination is the number one root of fear. Come to think of this, every time you wanted to move there will always be a distraction or temptation that is trying to get your attention, there is a like a snake seducing you to just do some other things that are not needed but entertaining and fun. If you can have the ability to choose what is needed then you will go very far, you will become a winner. Most people can't choose what is needed. They always prioritize what is easy, fun, accessible and doable. The don't want to choose the right actions that is needed at the moment because it is hard. It is hard because you don't want to start, it's hard because you're making it hard for yourself. If you will just do it and endure the pain then it will become a lot easier.
PLAY DIRTY
Make your hands dirty and stop being perfect, what matters is you are moving and doing something. Life is a journey, it's not about fantasies and wishes... it's about movement. DO something now and make things happen. Don't be afraid to make a lot of mistakes, don't be afraid to repeat over and over again, it's ok, that's life. If you want to become successful then you need to give everything you've got, you need to endure the pain of making mistakes. If you can do whatever it takes and go to the extreme then you will become unstoppable, sky is the limit for you. Give yourself a chance, try over and over gain, cheat a little bit if you need to but don't ever rely on shortcuts, don't ever think that cheating will get the job done, if you need to do it for that day the do it, just make sure you don't depend on it because it will become your habit, it will destroy your work ethic and patience.
ELEVATE TO A NEW LEVEL
The ability to just move and never complain if the task was so difficult. Just do it and never mind if you're going to finish later. Just do it, do it and do it and do it until the job gets done. Become a finisher not just a talker, not just a noise maker who is so proud of making hypes. You need to make yourself a doer and never complain or make excuses if there is a very scary challenge in front of you. Go through it, eat it, make it your bit*ch. Elevate to a new level by giving everything you've got no matter how impossible the goal is.
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