Don't ever feel that you're entitled of something, don't feel so special, don't ever think that you need a special treatment, don't look for respect, don't look for validation, don't try to prove yourself and just move forward. You don't need other people's respect, you don't need them to like you or praise you, you don't need any appreciation at all. It's much better if you will treat yourself as an ordinary person and just follow your passion. You need to focus on trying to get better mentally, physically or financially. It's ok if they're not treating you special, so what? you don't need their approval, all you need is yourself and the values that you're comfortable with. Focus on the right people, focus on what you really want, never try to control everything, never try to feel like a star, just think of yourself as someone who is trying to grow and trying to enjoy life. Life will become much easier if you're not feeling entitled of something, be indifferent, don't try to feel unique, don't let your ego get into your head.
FEELING SO SPECIAL WILL MAKE YOU WEAK
If you feel so special all the time you will feel like a victim all the time, you will feel that everyone is disrespecting you if you don't like what they're doing. You will feel that there is always something wrong, you would love to control everyone and everything, you want them to follow you and be like you. It will make you weak because you will lose your focus on better things. You will always expect them to behave in accordance to your values. If you feel special you will compare yourself to others, you will get jealous of someone who is making it but not talented at all, you will always feel that you're being treated unfairly and not getting what you deserve. If you feel special you need to see something first before you move, you need to get guaranteed first before you work hard and that is weakness. You have to stop thinking that you're above everyone so that you will be open to any kind of experience. Never think that they should do this or do that to you, you have to deal with a lot of BS and never feel anything about them.
LEARN TO ACCEPT THAT LIFE IS REALLY UNFAIR
Life is really like that, life is unfair. People will cheat on you, people will disrespect you, they will be mean and disrespectful but that's ok. Learn how to enjoy and play with life, if you can simply ignore them and focus on what you're doing and trying to achieve then you will become a winner in life. Life is full of randomness, it's not going to be kind to you all the time, life is unfair but you can adjust your perspective towards it. If you will just move forward and accept that life is not easy and you will not get what you want all the time then life will become much easier. You don't need to control everything, you just need to focus on what you can control. Stop trying to control people, stop forcing them to respect you, stop reacting all the time and focus on taking actions, focus on trying to get what you want instead of feeling bad when someone disrespected you or didn't treated you the way you want to get treated. The key to life is to simply focus on what you want and carry one, don't dwell on things and people that's making you feel heavier. It's hard to live this way but you can train yourself so that you will never feel stressed anymore.
STOP LOOKING FOR SOMETHING BEFORE YOU START
Stop looking for validation before you start, forget what they think of you, never care if they're laughing at you or mocking you or something... just start. Never look for a new shoes before you run... just run. Never look for a support before you try, just try. Never look for a guaranteed win before you execute... just execute. Never look for money or funds before you start a business.. .start a business with what you've got. If you stop feeling special all the time and just jump in then you will be able to accomplish more. Stop giving too much importance to your emotion, stop being too emotional and just do what you need to do. You don't need anything or anyone to motivate you, you can become a winner by just starting and following through every single day. If you will always look for comfort and support or anything that makes you feel good then you will never start. You are suppose to start and just do it even if it's too uncomfortable. That's how to attract success... you just do it even if there is something missing, you just do it even if you think you can't do it. Your mind is lying to you all the time, it wants comfort and assurance and that's why most people can't take actions, they just do it when it's comfortable, they're not trying to force anything that's why they're stuck forever on the same place.
YOUR'E JUST A HUMAN BEING
You are allowed to make mistakes, you are allowed to fail, you are allowed to get judged. Stop feeling so bad when someone is criticizing you, you are not special at all, stop feeling this way so the pressure will be released. You will feel a lot of resistance if you think that you need to be perfect, you will be cautious and scared if you think that you need to look great all the time. Stop caring about your image and just go with it, just take risk and allow yourself to fail. Allow yourself to get judged, allow yourself to look stupid and never fear what people say. You're just a human being, you are not suppose to be perfect. Stop feeling entitled of a special treatment or protection, embrace all the uncertainty, embrace all the meanness of the world. Never protect yourself from anything and allow yourself to get hurt, that's the best way to live life, that's the best way to become successful and feel satisfied.
NEVER LOOK FOR SAFETY AND ASSURANCE
You have to be ok with danger, if it can't kill you then why be afraid of it? take risks, allow yourself to hit the rock bottom after trying so hard. Don't look for an easy path, be willing to work insanely hard and give everything you've got. Be willing to do whatever it takes to get to the next level, never look for a safety path because it will only make you weak. Adversities will make you strong, challenges will reveal you who you really are.
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