You're not winning because of this, you keep losing because it is unfair, you're not happy because of her, you're struggling because of them, you can't live a good life because of everything. You have a lot of problems in your life and it's making you crazy, come to think about it... don't you think that the real problem is you? don't you think that maybe you are creating these problems because you're giving attention to the wrong things instead of working on yourself? Maybe you're the real problem. Maybe it's not the government, not your neighbor, not the system, not the people around you, maybe the real problem is you. Maybe you're focusing on the wrong things, maybe what you see what you shouldn't see but you keep on seeing it because of your attitude.
STOP THE VICTIM ATTITUDE
Being a victim is not about the unfortunate things that happens to you, it's not about you being treated badly by the world. Being a victim means you're not doing something instead you're just whining and complaining about it, being a victim is being helpless and powerless because of deciding to let things be that way. You have the power to move, you have the power to change your life and get some better things but you're not doing it because you choose to whine, complain and get mad at people. Victims are people who can't move on from a specific problem, victims are the people who think they are victims and they were full of dramas and negativity in life. If you don't want to become a victim forever then you better do something, don't just sit there and complain, stop opening your mouth and take matters into your own hands.
If you don't want the place you are in then move, if you don't want your work because of your toxic boss and co-employees then move, if you don't want tour salary then work harder, if you don't want the people around you then leave. It's all up to you, you can't be acting helpless forever because nothing will happen. You have a choice, there is always a choice, even thinking that you have no choice is still a choice. Aren't you sick and tired of getting the same shits over and over again? maybe it's time to create a new you, maybe it's time to think and act different this time. It's on you, what happening to you is because of you.
WORK ON YOURSELF
Stop blaming people now, stop blaming the world and start working on yourself, start creating something, be better today and leave the past. The reason why your life sucks is because you're not doing what is right, you're not working on your mind and skills. If you can just admit that you're not good and stop feeding your ego then you will be able to make progress faster. Work on your discipline, work on your focus and ability to make sacrifices. Work on yourself and never loon on other people's journey, focus on what you've got and try to make it as big as it can be. You've got to take massive actions for yourself, working on your dream is also working on yourself. Never waste your time watching stupid netflix and shits, you have to own your time and use it for growth only, because this is the only way, there is no other way. Change everything about you and you will see the difference. Be faster this time, be reliable, do what you say you're going to do, follow the plan and take massive actions. Work as hard as you can, work on yourself and surprise them with your results. It's on you if you want to have a new life, you can change and welcome a new life even if you're empty handed. Even if you have no money or nobody is there to help you... you can do it on your own, you just need to trust yourself and focus on improving your life.
ACCEPT THAT YOUR'E A BUM
Be humble, don't ever think that you're entitled of something special. Even if you come from a rich family... stay humble and still work hard. Because every time you feel special and entitled... that's when falter happens, that's when you fail, that's when you go down. Always work hard, always give your best and push yourself to the limits or else you will never succeed... ever. Accept that you've been a bum for a long time and you've been destroying your own life. You need to make a decision if you're going to change or not, there is no 50 percent change, there is no half committed change, if you really want to change then you need to go all it. Change all of your thoughts and actions and everything in your life will change, as simple as that. It's all your responsibility, if you're failing it's because you have a big attitude problem. It's not about the unfairness or cruelness of the world, it's about your weak and soft character. Accept that you're a bum so you can change, be humble and accept that you really need to work hard on yourself.
NEVER CARE ABOUT YOUR AGE
Just because you're already 60 doesn't mean you can't change your life anymore, it doesn't mean you're too late solve yourself. Just because you've been bad for a long time doesn't mean you will allow yourself to be like that forever. Never care about your age, no matter how old you are right now... solve yourself, change yourself if you want, welcome a new life. Change your routines, change your thoughts and still become the best that you can be. Anything is possible, even if you're already rusty and slow, even if you're old as dirt... still change, it's never too late to feel great and be great. Greatness is simply pushing yourself and going to the most uncomfortable position that you can be, it's simply going to the next level even if the improvement is so little.
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