Every time you stop yourself from doing stupid things that will make your life uglier... you get better, you already made a progress even if you're not doing anything. Sometimes all you have to do is don't do something stupid and useless and your life will become better, as simple as that. Sop watching too much porn, stop playing too much, stop watching too much TV, stop gossiping, stop focusing on the problems of other people, stop watching news and feeling bad about learning the problems of your country. Sometimes all you need to do is stay positive and do one positive thing at a time and your life will become much much better. Watch yourself, every time you stop doing something that will make you slow and broke you become a better person, you attract positive things into your life.
FOCUS ON THE LITTLE POSITIVE ACTIONS THAT YOU CAN EXECUTE
Depression, procrastination, failure, inability to make a progress happens when you don't focus on the little positive things that you can do. For sure there is something you can do to make your life better, there is something you can build, there is something you can focus on that will give your life a direction. It can be building a small business, building your own you tube channel, selling something online, developing a new skill that might give you a money in the future, applying for a new job, making yourself better by working harder, developing your mental game, exercising a little bit. Don't be afraid to start small, don't be be afraid to look like a beginner. Most people think they're experts already and that's why they can't improve. You have to swallow your ego and accept that you only knew a little. Always remember that there is one positive thing that you can do today, it may not create too much impact and improvement but it will help later.
DEPRIVATION MEANS EVOLUTION
Deprive yourself from stupid entertainment. Deprive yourself from eating a lot of junk foods, deprive yourself from parties and rubbing elbows with people that will not even make your life much better. You have to stay disciplined and focused, chasing dreams and goals is not a happy road, you have to embrace boredom, you have to work like hell and sacrifice a lot if you want to become closer to it. It's all about controlling your crave for short entertainment, it's all about controlling your desire to feel good because always looking for pleasure and comfort is not too healthy and helpful to your life. You really have to suffer a little bit, sacrifice a little bit and avoid having too much fun because it will never help you grow. Stopping yourself from being lazy, stopping yourself from eating unhealthy food, stopping yourself from partying and pleasing people will already make your life 10x better than before. It's simply about choosing what fun to sacrifice and focusing on helping yourself to become healthy and wealthy. Deprivation can help you a lot, do what is hard, don't do what is easy and your life will never be the same as before.
So if you can't make a progress, if you don't know what to do here is what you need to do... Look at yourself carefully and honestly accept what you are doing, if you're procrastinating and doing stupid stuffs... accept it and then stop doing it, forgive yourself, learn to let go of your mistakes and stop repeating the same mistakes again, once you see what you don't need to do you will do what you need to do, you just need to admit to yourself that you've been clowning around for a long time and it's time to do something different this time. You just need to take your life seriously and everything will change so fast, it's simply having the courage to improve and discipline yourself, I know it's hard but it's the only thing that will help you. Just be a no nonsense guy and you will do better things automatically. Define what you need to do and cross out everything that is derailing you from improving. Focus on what gives you money, focus on what makes you healthy and that's it, so simple yet it's so hard to apply because you're not used to doing it all the time. Your mind and body was programmed and doomed to fail because of your bad habits. If you will just stop procrastinating, if you will just stop pleasing yourself with these small stupid activities that makes you feel better for a short period of time then you will improve so fast, good things will be attracted to your life. It's simply grooming yourself with the right behavior and thoughts. If you're thinking the right way, if your mind was filled with positive thoughts and right images then you will prosper and conquer, you will have an amazing life. Think positively and do positive things, you will be surprised with the improvement in your life in just a short period of time.
LIFE IS NOT ALL ABOUT FEELING GOOD
If you want to feel good all the time by being lazy, playing too much video games without earning from it, eating junk foods or gossiping about other people's lives then you're in big trouble. Life is not about feelin good all the time, it's not about pleasures and entertainment, it's also about work, it's about making sacrifices so that you will have longer and happier life. If you're always looking to feel good then your on the wrong path, you will go down and it will happen at the unexpected date, you will be surprised and you will become powerless and out of control. So while you can still control your life now... do what is right, little by little move forward to the right path. The right path is not always easy, sometimes it's harder than what you expected but it is what it is, you have to go through some pain to feel happier and have a more stable life.
DO WHAT IS NECESSARY REGARDLESS OF HOW YOU FEEL
You feel lazy but you need to work, work anyway. You feel scared but you need to take a risk, risk it anyway. You feel shy but you need to dance for your boss or else he will fire you, dance anyway. You feel so low today, your caught your girlfriend flirting with a tomboy but you have to go to a job interview... go to the job interview anyway. Life goes on, you may feel what you don't want to feel but the world will never stop revolving just for you. You're just a small figment of life, you are nothing, you shouldn't feel special, you shouldn't feel entitled if you want to have an easier life.
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