Feelings is an overrated invention, it's too prioritized nowadays that's why there are lot of sensitive people that can't get through in life. They prioritize emotion too much, they want to feel good and if they can't feel good they're panicking, they're losing their minds, they're out of control. But if you will never care too much about your emotion then you will have power, you will become invincible, nothing is a big deal to you and that removes all the resistance. Emotion is not important, so what if you feel bad? you still need to do what you need to do, you still need to take care of your life. Remind yourself that you don't need to feel good all the time. You don't need to feel accomplished, secured, full, satisfied or confident, you just need to be yourself. What you are feeling right now, embrace it without resisting it.
IT'S NOT ABOUT FEELING PERFECTLY FINE
Your life will only get better if you are ok feeling uncomfortable. Life is not about comfort, it's a balance between struggle and stability. Stop looking for comfort because it will make you more uncomfortable, let comfort happen naturally, if it comes then it comes but if it doesn't then just keep moving forward all the time and that's it. You're thinking too much and that's why you can't make a progress, that's why you're always lost. Never mind if you feel bad, ignore the imperfections of your life and just keep moving forward. Because at the end of the day, you still need to live even if you're depressed, you still need to do your job even if you're God damn stress, you need to keep moving forward because if not then you will lose everything, you will be on a worst position of your life. Life is simply about taking actions, it's not about reactions or emotions... it's about doing something and not being stagnant or useless. Make yourself useful, try, squeeze what you can squeeze in life and never ever give up.
EVEN HAPPINESS AND EXCITEMENT WON'T HELP YOU
If you're happy and excited you will never work anymore, you're too satisfied of what is happening in your life and this will make you lazy, this will make you slow because you will feel that everything is perfectly fine and that you don't need to work anymore. Your hunger will go away, there will be no more sense of urgency. It's ok to be happy but you have to be aware if you're not working hard anymore because this will be the start of your falter. Always remember that your happiness will never stay there forever, some days you will become sad again for no reason, that's life, that's how a normal system works. If you're happy stay humble and keep doing the routine that makes you successful, never get satisfied because it is not good for your journey, always aim to move forward and achieve something better, never stop, never settle, never let a small happiness make you weak, you have to strive for more, keep the hungry state of mind alive and stay relentless all the time.
THE DECISION MUST COME FROM A NEUTRAL STATE
Don't make a decision if you're too happy or too sad because you will regret it later. If you made a decision if you're too happy the result will be you will become too generous and people will take advantage of you, you will become too kind, you will give away your money, you will give everything you have and that is not too good. It's ok to be kind but not too much, you need to have something left for you. If you're also making a decision from sadness, it's every bad too, you will think that you need to do something in order to become happy, you will allow people to take advantage of you too, you will let them to be in control. For example, you're too sad and you want a company, you will rub elbows with people that you don't even like because you want someone to help you or listen to you, the result is you will do what they ask you too because you don't want to be alone. This is a bad decision for you.
THE STRONGEST PERSON IS THE ONE WHO DOESN'T CARE ABOUT HIS EMOTIONS
A man who got rejected by a girl and just laugh wasn't hurt that bad, he knew he can find another victim. The poor girl feels proud or guilty because she turned down a guy but the guy is secretly laughing and saying to himself "good for you girl, I will just impregnate you and leave you, you're lucky you didn't bite my trap". Of course the guy was hurt too but he doesn't care about his emotions, he simply care about trying and trying to win at all cost, after failing... he was so free moving forward, he has an abundant mindset. Just like in sports, there is this one kid who doesn't care about his coach yelling at him, he was powerful, he takes the last shot, he will do whatever he wants, his goal is to win and do it in his own way, if they lost they lost, he doesn't mind taking the blame. He doesn't care about his emotions that's why he was so free to do anything. In life, if you don't care about how you feel then the resistance will go away. Never care if you're tired, never care if you're scared, never care if all people are laughing at you, just move forward and do your thing, do what you want to do, if they can't stop you then that's their problem.
NEVER CARE ABOUT YOUR EMOTIONS EVER
Stop being soft, embrace your fears, accept that you may fail, you may get disappointed but keep trying, never stop moving because it's the only way to survive and thrive. Keep experiencing life even if it is bitter and hard, open your heart to a new experience. Always remember that life is easier if you will never care about how you feel, it's not about escaping from reality, it's giving you an edge in life. Because you can become unstoppable and relentless if you're not scared of rejection, heartbreaks, failures and pain. Embrace it all, suck it up and always remember that what you want at the moment is not the only thing that can make you happy. There are millions of reasons to be happy, the best way how to become happy a little bit is appreciate what you have in your life.
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