Change will be done through sacrifice, discipline, pressure, frustration and not giving up. iT's not being sadistic, it's not being a nerd or something... it's the reality, it's what you need to do, you need to have the work ethic of Elon Musk if you want to achieve something great in your life. It's so simple but hard... no entertainment for three months, stop entertaining yourself, stop being a bum, stop clowning around, stop playing like a kid that has no direction. You need to be super serious here if you want to see some results in your life. Don't be afraid to fail, don't be afraid to get bored with your life, because after all... you're already bored, you already hate your life, you want to experience a new one so you better do something different this time. Because entertaining yourself too much is the number one reason why you're failing, having a lot of fun that was useless is making you broke, you are losing your momentum by playing games and doing things that are useless. Something fun is just a temporary pleasure, it's a trap, it's making your life worse and you don't know it, it's the path to a miserable life. Some people say that you only live once so have fun as much as you can, then why the hell are they complaining about being broke and unemployed? whey are they complaining that the government is not taking care of them? I thought they can have fun everyday then why can't they sustain it?
IF YOU'RE FEELING THE SAME WAY THEN CHANGE HASN'T TAKE PLACE
You need to feel different this time, it's either you feel energetic or you feel so stressed. Any of the two is a correct feeling. If you feel so stressed and still moving forward then it means growth is taking place. If you feel more energetic and motivated than yesterday then it means you have a strong momentum going on, keep that pace alive and never go back to your old state again. Once you feel out of energy already, keep pushing forward and never stop. This is not a punishment, this is not insanity, again it's the reality, you really need to experience this kind of suffering if you want to have a new life. You're like a metal that is being melted, you're like a diamond that needs some pressure to shine. Because if you will not undergo a different process then you will never evolve, as simple as that. So if you're too relaxed, if you're too comfortable then it means no change is taking place, it means you're not growing, forget everything and just work really hard. I mean really really hard, insane focus is needed here.
So if you keep feeling the same way over and over again then it means you're not pushing yourself to change, you're not doing everything you can to have a better life. There is no such thing as something for nothing, you have to sacrifice your happiness and time if you want to experience a new life. That is what it's all about, you can't pick both, you can't pick happiness and success at the same time. You must drop one, you can never get all, you can only pick one. So don't panic when you're struggling, don't freak out when you're having a lot of difficulty in life, it only means change is already taking place, keep pushing forward and never quit because it's only just a matter of time before you have a breakthrough.
WORK AS YOUR ENTERTAINMENT
Have fun with your work, be playful, be more creative. This is the only way to avoid boredom, enjoy every process that you must take, enjoy every step of the way. Some people were so bored with their work because they don't attach any story with it, if you can just think that your work is really important and that you need to take it seriously so that you can go to another level then you will take your work seriously. Some people are not taking their work seriously because they think that they can never grow anymore, they think that it's the only fate they have. You have to enjoy your work even if it is a shitty work, enjoy it even the the pay was too low, make a story from it, imagine that it's your stepping stone, squeeze a lot of money from it and use it to upgrade your status in life.
WATCH YOURSELF IF YOU'RE ITCHING TO HAVE FUN
What is fun will never take you to the place where you want to be. What is fun will never give you money, what is fun will never change your reality. Always remember that sacrifices and pain is the door to success. It is what it is, if you're afraid to feel uncomfortable then stop dreaming about becoming a winner, accept that you're a cold bum for life, accept that you're nothing but a dreamer that can't even start realizing his dream. Discipline is the key, you need to have that laser focus, never get distracted from anything that will only derail your journey, you need to lock in and do whatever it takes to win in life. Watch your mind, what are you thinking, block the temptation. Never click a clickbait, never simp a beautiful woman on the internet, never think about your past again, never imagine your high school crush getting naked in front of you, you have to watch your mind because thinking about fantasies is also fun and it's eating a lot of your time, the result is failure again. You need to focus and work like hell, it's the only choice you have if you really want to change your life.
YOU ONLY NEED THREE MONTHS
you only need three months to become successful, you only need three months to create a strong momentum to succeed. It takes three months to build a habit that will make you really successful, success is just a habit, it's a pattern same as failure. Once you win you can win over and over again, once you lose and you didn't make any adjustments you will lose over and over again.
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