Good things happen when you are scared but you do it anyway, opportunities show up when you're doubtful but you still show up and do what must be done. Fear is not your enemy, it's a sign that you must pull the trigger, it's a sign that you must do something and stop planting your feet on the ground and just do something. Doing something for your dream, doing something that is necessary, executing your own ideas feels like heaven, you will feel much much better and satisfied if you allow yourself to take actions instead of focusing on being scared and taking the moment for granted. Moving will make the fear evaporate, moving will give you a lot of confidence that you need.
YOU WILL REGRET THAT YOU DIDN'T TRY
Should have been, could have been, what if... these are the lines of losers. Big time losers have the saddest stories. They will tell you that they almost made it but... they always have buts, they are always trying to make themselves feel good by narrating their "almost successful" story in their own version. And take note, they were proud of it, they were even adding some invented scenes just to make their story more colorful. But in the end you will learn that they didn't try, they didn't give their all and that's why they're full of regrets.
A person who try already have a big advantage over the other person who didn't try. If you try then you will win, as simple as that. It's only just a matter of time before you get that victory. It may take a thousand tries but you will still win, success can never escape you if you will never quit.
FEAR WILL BOTHER YOU ALL THE TIME
You must realize, you must understand that fear will never go away. It will bother you all the time especially when you have a decision to make. It will try to scare you, it will poison your mind, it's main goal is to stop you from taking actions. So don't expect to feel confident all the time, even if you feel that you're already a confident man... don't expect that you will feel that way all the time. Time will come and you will be stunned again, you will feel overwhelmed and anxious again, that's why you need to understand yourself, you need to be mindful, your mindset should be... "You will be ok" no matter what. Nothing worse will happen, it's just a feeling, it's just a thought, it will come and go. You need to stay still, stay calm whenever you are scared and define what you need to do and execute right away. Fear was attached to your life, you can never get rid of it, it will follow you wherever you ago. Your duty is to neutralize it and ignore it, your duty is to focus on being brave and doing what you are suppose to do. So be scared all the time but take actions anyway, be scared but don't ever stop. Keep feeling that fear, enjoy it, laugh at it secretly, once you accept that you will be scared all the time... you will get use to your fear and you will be able to control it, the result is confidence and good energy.
FEAR IS JUST A TRIGGER
Once you feel it you must move anyway. If there is something you need to do... do it despite of fear. Because at the end of the day it all goes down to whether you did it or not. A person who is moving and always trying ahs already an advantage over you even though you're more skilled than him. A person who is trying has already become 50 percent successful, he only needs to keep working on his goal. How many times when you're scared but you did it anyway and good things happen? you think you can't do it, you think you're going to fail but later you realized that you can really do it. And how many times you didn't take an action only to find out that it's not harder than you thought? sometimes you're just fooling yourself that it's hard but the truth is you just don't want to feel a little bit uncomfortable. If you're always looking for comfort then fear will always be felt. That's why you just have to do it, that's why you just need to allow yourself to take actions and forget what might happen next. Whenever you're scared to do something... do it without attaching yourself to your emotions. DO it and fear will goa way in just three seconds.
GO FOR THE KILL ALL THE TIME
Have that killer mentality, have that mindset of just doing it even if you're scared. Always remember that in order to become successful you must disregard your emotions, you must be cold, you must act despite of fear, you must not make your feelings a priority. Because you will become scared every once in a while, and even if you're the toughest man in the world... you will still become scared because you will be tested. Life is a test, it will test you, it will scare you, it will challenge you, it will try to bring out the best in you and it's up to you if you will fold or rise under pressure. Have that assassin mindset, you do it no matter what, you finish it even if there are lot of resistance. You just don't care at all, all you know is you have to act and do your job.
YOU'RE JUST SCARED OF LOSING
Why are you so scared of losing? do you really own something? what you have will not be yours forever, you're just borrowing it. Don't be afraid to lose everything because that's the beauty of life... losing and having the ability to comeback again. Just take risk, don't be afraid to lose because your defeat will not be remembered, nobody will talk about it, nobody will care about it. Losing is part of the game, if you can fall in love with losing and never feel about it then you will become invincible. But if you will not care about winning or losing then you will become relentless, you will be able to do more, you will be able to take massive massive actions, you will become a machine. Because the reason why you can't move is because you want to become perfect all the time, you want a perfect record, you want a perfect situation. And that's why you're too restricted, and that's why you can't become really creative, you can't express yourself to the fullest because you care too much about the results.
EMBARRASSING YOURSELF IS A GOOD TRAINING
Embarrass yourself in front of people, look like a stupid weirdo, just express yourself and give your best. Always be open to losing and humiliating yourself, always be open to chaos. This is a good training, keep losing over and over again until it doesn't hurt anymore. If you can do this then you will become a beast. Some people were not born winners, they were been losers but they didn't give up and that's why they still win in the end. So keep losing if you're born a loser, repeat the process, repeat the mistakes but don't ever quit. One day is going to be your day, one day success will fall into your hands and everything will be a lot easier.
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