The truth is... you will never become fearless, there is no such thing as fearless. The word fearless means less fear not without fear. You can never eliminate fear whenever you want to, you will always feel it. But you have to convince yourself that you need to take actions despite of it. That's the key to success... you take actions despite of feeling unsure or doubtful, you have to keep working and keep moving forward even if you think you can't, fear will never disappear but the difference between a winner and a loser is... a winner is willing to become scared and still take actions, he is never afraid of failing, he is never afraid of trying.
IGNORE YOUR FEELINGS AND JUST MOVE FORWARD
To become unstoppable, to become relentless... you just need to ignore everything you feel and just move forward that's it. Forget about your addiction of pornography, forget about how bad do you want to eat ice cream, forget that you are hungry, forget that you have a headache, just move forward and that's it. Forget your emotions, how you feel has nothing to do with what you need to do . You can complain all day that your stomach hurts but will it help you to finish something? stop talking about your pain and it will go away. Keep working on your goals, chase what your long term goal or short term goal, move despite of uncertainty and discomfort, move even if there is something bothering your mind. It's not going to become comfortable... ever, you have to stop being a pussy, stop being a chicken and just move.
DEFINE YOUR FOCUS
Most people can't have a little bit of courage because they don't know what they need to be focusing on. That's why their minds were always wandering anywhere and they can't make a little bit of progress. If you know what you need to do, if you know where you need to be focusing on then you will move faster, make decisions faster and ignore all the noises outside. Define your focus, know your circumference. If you know the things, people and activities that only matters to you then nothing outside of them will bother you. Focus on the right people, think about the people that loves you the most and completely ignore the haters, other toxic people that makes you feel bad. Know what you need to do, if you need to graduate in College then graduate in college, that's your focus should be about. Stop focusing on what's lacking in your allowance, the arrogant students, the terror professors etc. If you know what you should be focusing on then life will be a lot simpler and easier, you will never feel bad if you don't like what's going on. If you need to earn money then focus on earning money, stop feeling ashamed if your job is not flashy or popular, feel ok doing any kind of job because just like what I said... your focus is to earn money and not what other people say. Define your focus and you will feel more powerful and fearless. Define your focus and you will never feel bad about some other things outside of your focus, when I say focus that's the only thing you should be thinking about.
If your focus is about your health then focus on getting stronger. Stop thinking about the future, stop thinking about the pain, stop thinking about the foods you can't eat anymore, focus on making yourself stronger each day and that's it. Your courage will level up if you're focused on the process of getting what you want.
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