Life is just like that, why be surprised?

Don't pretend that it's not suppose to happen. Why get shocked of something that already happened before? Maybe it hasn't happened to yet but it already happened to somebody else. It's all part of life, everything that happening now is normal, it happened before and it's likely to happen again and again. So if you're witnessing something that is scary or uncomfortable just deal with it, don't give too much emotion for it because it's all part of life. It's part of the script, it's part of the game. May it be good or bad, anything is possible in life so don't be surprised of anything, it is what it is, what happened happens all the time, so stop being on a victim mode and choose strength otherwise. 

DON'T BE SRURPISE IF YOU SUCCEED, DON'T BE SURPRISE IF YOU GET UPSET

If you win big time never tell yourself that it's just a fluke, never stay too humble, don't be too arrogant but don't pretend that you just got lucky. You deserve to win, if you work hard for it then it's really for you. And when you lose, don't be surprised, even if you really prepare for it and still lost... it happens, upset happens, sometimes no matter how hard you work the victory will still not be given to you. Even if they cheated on you, even if they didn't treat you right... don't complain, life is just like that. Because every time you bark and complain you're only putting yourself on a victim mode, you're only making yourself  weaker, that's not the mentality of a winner. The mindset of a winner is to come back stronger and better