Dec 7, 2020

CHOOSE PLAN OVER EMOTION

In anything that you are trying to pursue... always choose plan over emotion. Never let emotions dictate the outcome of your journey. All plans will work if executed properly, emotion is just a feeling that will make you decide the wrong way. If you have a plan your chances of winning is very high but if you're just going with your emotions then you're not in control, your emotions are in control and every time you feel that way... you're certainly to make a lot of mistakes which is very bad if you're trying to win. 

Just like in stock market, if you don't have a plan then you will lose a lot of money. You will get frustrated every time the prices of your stocks go down, you will sell on the wrong time. Sometimes if there is a hyped stock and most people are talking about it, you will also buy it even if there is no study behind it. This decision is wrong again, after a few days you will see that you've made a wrong decision, and it's because you decide based on how you feel, you didn't look at the technical side of it. 

Another scenario is a stock that is going up, the owner can't decide when to sell the rising stock, he is so happy that it's rising everyday then one day it falls down unexpectedly, his profit disappear in just a blink of an eye. It's because he didn't set a plan, he was so in love with his emotions of seeing his money getting bigger not knowing that one day it may go back to normal or even zero. But if he has a plan, he will sell it to the price that he choose, there is a profit unlike letting his emotions decide... the decision can't be done because he thinks that it will never go down. 

Another example is a fighter fighting heavily angry against the opponent that he hates so much. He is not using his gameplan, he is throwing stray kicks and punches, he is letting his emotions control his body, he is not even doing what he practice. In the end he got KO'ed. His eyes were rolling, his vision got blurry, it's because he let stupidity play in, he know what to do but he didn't do it because he wants revenge, he let his emotions take over. And if you're letting emotions control you... you will never be able to think right, your actions will be pointless, all of your energy will be wasted. And speaking of energy... your energy will easily get depleted if you're moving emotional, you will run out of air quickly. But if you are calm and collected then you will have more energy to do the work, it's because you are using your subconscious mind, everything is like automatic, you don't need to think anymore, you will never worry. 

EXECUTE THE PLAN EVEN IF IT'S NOT WORKING

It may not be working for now but eventually it will in the end. All plans will work if you will persevere and believe it. The reason why it's not working is because you're not fully committed to it, you're not trusting it anymore every time you face a frightening obstacle. But if you believe it with all your heart then for sure it's going to work. Keep executing the game plan, repeat it as much as you can and forget about anything else. Never do anything outside of your game plan. Because if you will follow your game plan then you will be able to do more, you will have more confidence, you will never get lost, you have a fall back every time something goes wrong. 

EMOTION IS JUST A DISTRACTION

You get emotional when someone is sick and needs help, the funny thing is you just saw it in the new, you don't even know that person. Why be so emotional? can you help that person? is there something you gonna do about it? if none then just shut up because you're just destroying your mind and peace. I'm not saying that stop caring for other people, the point here is you will do nothing about it. If you will not take actions then just shut up because you're not helping at all. 

You got emotional when someone disrespect you or didn't treat your right. It's normal to get mad but wanting to have a revenge or do some stupid thing will only make your life worse. Look at those people who fire shots just because of traffic, they end up being in jail now. It's because they don't even think, they just let emotion destroy their peace, they have a good life before but in just a blink of an eye they were living in hell because of being too emotional. But if they have a simple plan like ignoring every people misbehaving and just focus on their one lives or simply moving forward no matter what then they will forget all of their problems and make more progress, they will forget all the people that didn't treat them right. 

Choosing plan over emotion is the best way to live life, you will stay out of trouble, you will never make a lot of mistakes. Everyday you should have a plan on how are you going to run your day, there should be deadlines, there should be quotas, there should be timelines, there should be strict implementations. Never let your emotion dictate the outcome of your life because the result will not be very good. Execute the plan, one step at a time and you're already headed to your desired destination. 

YOUR EMOTION WILL NEVER HELP YOU

Investing too much on your emotions, when you feel lazy you will not move anymore and make excuses, you will prioritize your feelings, and that's why you always feel weak, that's why you can't make any move. But if you will prioritize your game plan, you will move even if you feel heavy, you will ignore how you feel and just push forward. Sticking with your game plan will give you more energy, especially if you believe that it will give you rewards in the future. Trust your game plan no matter what, keep doing it, never doubt t, never let your emotions control you. 

If you want to have a better life, create a small plan towards your goal and follow it every single day. It doesn't need to be well detailed or well ironed, just do it everyday. 

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