I know your mindset, I know what your brain is thinking... it's to earn money to pay your bills or for buying something that you want. You're rushing your work, you're not giving your best, you're simply focus on the outcome and that's why you're out of control, you're not being yourself anymore, you are losing your power, you are not being creative anymore, you are letting the external control you. And that's why you feel weak, that's why you feel powerless, that's why you're not making any kind of progress... you are always looking for what you can get and not focusing on what you can give. That's why you're losing in life, you're not patient, you're not taking your time, you're simply rushing things and looking forward on what you can get.
YOU ARE LETTING THEM ABUSE YOU BECAUSE OF BEING NEEDY OF MONEY
You're doing something that you don't like because of wanting money too much. You're letting your boss abuse you, he ask you to do an overtime even if it's your son's birthday, and you can't say no because you're so afraid that you might not get paid or maybe you're also thinking that he will eliminate you from getting a raise or promotion. What if you don't need money? what if you feel that you can get money if you just invest on yourself? what if you prioritize yourself first and stay confident that you can get a better job even if you get fired? what if you really believe in yourself that you can survive no matter what? what if you believe in hard work that even if they fired you you can still find another job because you know yourself and your ability to work hard and look for another job? what if you're not needy of money? what do you think will be the result?
Your tenant is so noisy and loud, you want to get rid of them but you're so afraid that you might not get another tenant that pays so well. You're so afraid that your apartment will be vacant for months. And that's why you're tenants are getting more abusive and loud, and that's why they're not respecting you anymore. You are treating them like a boss even if you're the boss, it's because you're already a slave of money, you're losing your power because of thinking money too much, you're so afraid to lose something. You are letting them abuse you because you're so needy of money, you think that it's the only money in the world. There are plenty of money, there is an abundant of opportunity if you will only trust yourself and not be afraid to get zero.
That's why there are some people who are entering the prostitution business, they think that they need the money right away, they think that they don't have a choice that's why they will accept any kind of job even if they can't stomach it. They hate it but they will do it for the sake of money, what a funny situation.
FEAR OF MISSING OUT MAKES YOU COMMIT STUPID MISTAKES
There is a marketing scheme attracting you to invest on them while it's still early because if you invest late then the opportunity of making more money will be slimmer. You are getting seduced by the idea that they can earn so fast without having to work so hard. Everyone is taking their slots, everyone is investing on them because they were too loud and deceptive. But after a few months you will learned that they are fake and all of your money were gone.
There are lots of opportunities, there are lots of breaks, all you have to do is be patient and never rush. Seek hard and you will find, don't let a shortcut fool you, don't let an easy path deceive you, be observant and smart, you don't need to follow the crowd, just do your own thing, believe in your own timing and you will become successful too.
The truth is... you never lose something if you don't think about it. If it doesn't mean anything to you then you didn't lose it, if you don't care about it then you are good, you are ok, you will never feel bad about it.
PEOPLE ARE GETTING IT DOES THAT MEAN YOU NEED TO GET IT TOO?
No, of course not. You don't need to be like them, just because they are getting successful fast then you need to follow them. Stop getting jealous because your journey is different from theirs. You have your own timing, just believe in yourself. Because you really don't know what's going on with their lives, you really don't know if they're really successful or not. Just stay on your lane, even if you are slow... always remember that you are still progressing, you are still making something happen, just be happy with what you've got and try to make it grow or bigger everyday.
So what if they have it and you don't have it? what's the big deal? you have something that they don't have too. If you're happier than them then you're more successful than them, as simple as that. You don't need to compete, you don't need to look cool too, you don't need to brag, just stay humble and work hard, do it your way and you will become much happier in your life.
Stop thinking that you need money and you will have more options.
Not thinking about money is freedom, not thinking about it will make you more creative and free, you will be able to take more risks and grab better opportunities. That's why a role player in basketball can't upgrade himself into a star player, it's because he's not betting on himself. He was so afraid to lose his job that's why he will follow orders from coaches that doesn't even care about his contract. But if this player will jut forget about money, forget about losing his spot and just go all the way then he will have a better chance of becoming a star player. It is what it is, if you're so afraid to lose something then you will never get everything, you will not get what you want, you must be willing to fail big time, you must be willing to start from the bottom again. Not thinking about money is freedom, not worrying about it will make you more creative and brave.
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