AFTER ALL... IT'S JUST A FEELING

After all... it's just a feeling, it's nothing more than that. Why will you feel bad about something that doesn't really affect you if you will think deeply. A noisy neighbor will just give you emotions, it didn't take your money, it didn't hurt you physically, he is just annoying you because of his noise. All he does is give you negative emotions and nothing more than that. Of course you will feel bad, you will feel angry but it's all just noise, the truth of the matter is... you can control your emotions, you can still feel happy if you will direct your attention to a different subject.

Someone criticizing your work... he didn't even touch you nor stab you. He is just making you feel bad, if you will just move forward and ignore all the critics then you will become happier in your life, so what if your work is ugly? so what if it is not selling? the most important thing in life is you're working and moving forward. Not all people will like you and you have to accept that. Invest in actions not in emotions.

Stop feeling bad about something that doesn't affect your health, money or status in life. It's you that is the leader of your own life, you will direct your life where it wants to go. All those people, obstacles, negativity are all just part of the process. They can make you feel bad but they can never put you down if you don't allow it.

If you win a game, if you become victorious, if you got promoted by your boss... you are happy right? it's just an emotion. It's not a big deal, people move because they want to feel something, people are motivated because they want to win but when something happens... they don't know that it's just an emotion, they think that it's a big deal and they need to solve it.

Your problems are only becoming bigger and bigger because you attached too much emotions with it. You think that you can't solve it, you think that it will never be over. It's just an emotion, those problems will soon be over. If you don't know what to do then stop thinking about it, never make it a big deal.

You are doing something because you think you will become happy if you finish it, you are thinking about something because you think it's the only thing that will make you happy.

You know what? you can become happy even if you don't have this or have that. You can become happy if you're poor, you can become sad if you're rich. It's all emotions, the world is all about emotions. The world is fighting each other because their egos are leading them to a fight, they want happiness through becoming superior.

And when you're about to die, how will you feel? those riches, those challenges, those respect from other people, those victories and defeats... what does it all mean? it means nothing right?

So stop being emotional, if you want to have a happier life... realize that it's all emotion. Someone will disrespect you, someone will destroy your peace but it's alright. If you can stay in control and know your strength then nobody can bother you, nobody can make you feel inferior.