SOMETIMES ASSISTANCE IS MAKING YOU WEAK

If you want to become independent, if you want to stand by yourself... stop looking for assistance, do it on your own. If you're always looking for help, no one will help you. But if you will show the people that you don't need help... they will be very happy to assist you sometimes, especially if they saw that you're suffering too much. Help is on the way you don't need to ask for it, if you can do something on your own then do it, never look for a special treatment because it is for coward.

Bravery can be seen on someone who is willing to do it by himself regardless if he will get help along the way or not. You are brave if you can stand on your own, you are brave if you're not willing to share your apartment with others, you are brave if you know you can pay it on your own. It's better to be alone that to be with someone who is helping you but you don't like at all. You can find a way if you will pretend that you can do it, if you will put in your mind that it's possible... because it does.

Assistance is only making you weak, it is ruining your life. Look at those people who are so use to getting help from their relatives... they get mad when their allowances is not yet there. They always feel that they are entitled of something but the truth is... they don't deserve any help because they were too lazy.

If you want something, get it on your own, don't ask for help, don't ask for special assistance. You can get it if you really want it, you will find a way, you will be able to forge a path on your own. Because if you will rely on somebody else's strength... you will become weaker and weaker, you will always get disappointed if the support doesn't come into your life.

You don't need a special treatment, always think that you're not entitled of something, always think that you need to work hard. If you want it then go and get it, as simple as that. Your desire will be your direction, your hunger for it will be your instruction. You don't need to know how will you be able to get it, trust me... you will find a way if you want it desperately.

Assistance is for the weak, help is for the victims, are you a victim? if not then take matters into your own hands and do what is best for your life, do what will make you powerful, do what will make your dreams come true.

If you're always willing to take actions then you don't need a help anymore, if you're really committed to make something happen then you will make it happen, no need for second thoughts, no need to doubt yourself. Just start it now, stop seeking for help and do it on your own. The only way to independence is become independent.