The only way to become productive, the only way to change is to focus on what you can't do and don't do it meaning you have to be aware if you're about to do something that is not important. Be mindful of the things that you must not be focusing on and completely ignore it once you're thinking about it. 24/7 you must guard your actions, you must guard your thoughts. You must define the activities that you must not engage with and limit yourself from doing it. If you don't know what to do then do nothing, just don't do the things that eats a lot of your time, just don't do something that will make you addicted to it. Because most of the time you're so addicted to TV, news, gossips, mindless conversations, stupid activities, Netflix. Yeah they are all fun but how can they help you to improve? how can they make you better? The only thin that can make you better is discipline, set strict rules and follow it. If you told yourself you're not going to smoke for the rest of your life then do it, stop lighting the last cigarette, stop fooling yourself, stop having a cheat day, just don't smoke. If you said you're not going to procrastinate anymore then do it, take actions all the time, be relentless as you can be, do whatever it takes and never stop until you get on top. Set strict rules and follow it, no exemption, no cheat days, no vacation... follow it. That's the only way to become a winner, that's the only way to grow and change. Yeah, it's going to get boring and difficult but it's much better than wasting your time.
IF YOU REALLY WANTED TO CHANGE
Prepare to feel uncomfortable, prepare to feel the stress because change only happens during the most uncomfortable moment, you will never level up if you keep feeling comfortable everyday. Progress only happens during the most stressful situations, you can never change if you're always doing the same thing again and again. That's why you need to make sacrifices, you need to embrace a new life, you need to become faster and bolder, you need to become more aggressive. Your will to win is the barometer of your success, if you really want it then you will die for it, you will treat your goal as the only air that you can breathe, you must want success like your life depends on it. So stop being soft, stop being slow, stop being a bum, you need to man up, you need to go hard all the time, you need to stop wasting time, stop doing what is fun and easy and start doing what is hard but rewarding. Because change will never change if you're always soft and acting like a weak clown, stop playing the sick game, you need to push harder than yesterday, shut down the part of your mind telling you to just stop and go back to sleep, you have to stay awake all the time, you have to be in a sense if urgency if you wanted to get ahead in life.
Successful people never feel comfortable all the time, they always feel stressed but were able to manage it. You must be good in dealing with stress, you must eat it like a healthy vitamin, consume it like your body needs it, have fun with it and always think that it's putting you on a better position. Because you are changing every time you feel stressed, change is taking place, it's making you better so stop resisting it... enjoy it and always remind yourself that you can still move forward despite of feeling it. Just don't stop and that's it, never give up, never make excuses, you have to go forward whenever you feel overwhelmed... that's the only way to beat it. You can't be making dramas, you can't be complaining that you are too tired, you can't look for sympathy here, you're asking for a new life right? then you better man up and work as hard as you can.
IF THERE IS NO DISCIPLINE THEN THERE WILL BE NO CHANGE
If you can't limit yourself of something, if you don't want to embrace the pain then change will never take place. Discipline is painful and boring, it is hard but it's the only way to progress, you can never improve if you're always pampering yourself, you have to go harder whenever you feel tired, you have to push yourself to the limits even if you're running out of energy. In order to win in life all you have to do is do what you hate to do, do what is boring but is making an impact in your life. Be courageous to accept that your life is different now, you're a new person now. You're not interested with stupid nonsense things anymore, you're not interested with useless topics anymore, all you want is to improve and become a different person. A new personality will create a new reality, if you're so sick and tired of living a weak life then you better create a new version of you, you better define a new self image. Raise your standards and never live your old life again, you better change your perspective and habits. Make your belief bigger, make your work ethic stronger. Keep pushing forward no matter what, follow your desires, stay disciplined all the time. Stay committed and dedicated, time is fast, if you can just use your daily life the right way then you will attract better things in life. Discipline is the key and nothing else, always remember that it's better to be doing something hard than doing nothing at all, it's better to do nothing than to do some addictive thing that will be very hard to stop. It's on you if you wanted to win in life, just try not stopping, just try moving all the time towards your goal no matter how slow you are, just put yourself on a better position to succeed even if it's so evident that you're going to lose, keep trying... never stop, never quit.
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