SET STRICT RULES AND FOLLOW IT

The only way to become productive, the only way to change is to focus on what you can't do and don't do it meaning you have to be aware if you're about to do something that is not important. Be mindful of the things that you must not be focusing on and completely ignore it once you're thinking about it. 24/7 you must guard your actions, you must guard your thoughts. You must define the activities that you must not engage with and limit yourself from doing it. If you don't know what to do then do nothing, just don't do the things that eats a lot of your time, just don't do something that will make you addicted to it. Because most of the time you're so addicted to TV, news, gossips, mindless conversations, stupid activities, Netflix. Yeah they are all fun but how can they help you to improve? how can they make you better? The only thin that can make you better is discipline, set strict rules and follow it. If you told yourself you're not going to smoke for the rest of your life then do it, stop lighting the last cigarette, stop fooling yourself, stop having a cheat day, just don't smoke. If you said you're not going to procrastinate anymore then do it, take actions all the time, be relentless as you can be, do whatever it takes and never stop until you get on top. Set strict rules and follow it, no exemption, no cheat days, no vacation... follow it. That's the only way to become a winner, that's the only way to grow and change. Yeah, it's going to get boring and difficult but it's much better than wasting your time. 

IF YOU REALLY WANTED TO CHANGE

Prepare to feel uncomfortable, prepare to feel the stress because change only happens during the most uncomfortable moment, you will never level up if you keep feeling comfortable everyday. Progress only happens during the most stressful situations, you can never change if you're always doing the same thing again and again. That's why you need to make sacrifices, you need to embrace a new life, you need to become faster and bolder, you need to become more aggressive. Your will to win is the barometer of your success, if you really want it then you will die for it, you will treat your goal as the only air that you can breathe, you must want success like your life depends on it. So stop being soft, stop being slow, stop being a bum, you need to man up, you need to go hard all the time, you need to stop wasting time, stop doing what is fun and easy and start doing what is hard but rewarding. Because change will never change if you're always soft and acting like a weak clown, stop playing the sick game, you need to push harder than yesterday, shut down the part of your mind telling you to just stop and go back to sleep, you have to stay awake all the time, you have to be in a sense if urgency if you wanted to get ahead in life. 

Successful people never feel comfortable all the time, they always feel stressed but were able to manage it. You must be good in dealing with stress, you must eat it like a healthy vitamin, consume it like your body needs it, have fun with it and always think that it's putting you on a better position. Because you are changing every time you feel stressed, change is taking place, it's making you better so stop resisting it... enjoy it and always remind yourself that you can still move forward despite of feeling it. Just don't stop and that's it, never give up, never make excuses, you have to go forward whenever you feel overwhelmed... that's the only way to beat it. You can't be making dramas, you can't be complaining that you are too tired, you can't look for sympathy here, you're asking for a new life right? then you better man up and work as hard as you can. 

IF THERE IS NO DISCIPLINE THEN THERE WILL BE NO CHANGE

If you can't limit yourself of something, if you don't want to embrace the pain then change will never take place. Discipline is painful and boring, it is hard but it's the only way to progress, you can never improve if you're always pampering yourself, you have to go harder whenever you feel tired, you have to push yourself to the limits even if you're running out of energy. In order to win in life all you have to do is do what you hate to do, do what is boring but is making an impact in your life. Be courageous to accept that your life is different now, you're a new person now. You're not interested with stupid nonsense things anymore, you're not interested with useless topics anymore, all you want is to improve and become a different person. A new personality will create a new reality, if you're so sick and tired of living a weak life then you better create a new version of you, you better define a new self image. Raise your standards and never live your old life again, you better change your perspective and habits. Make your belief bigger, make your work ethic stronger. Keep pushing forward no matter what, follow your desires, stay disciplined all the time. Stay committed and dedicated, time is fast, if you can just use your daily life the right way then you will attract better things in life. Discipline is the key and nothing else, always remember that it's better to be doing something hard than doing nothing at all, it's better to do nothing than to do some addictive thing that will be very hard to stop. It's on you if you wanted to win in life, just try not stopping, just try moving all the time towards your goal no matter how slow you are, just put yourself on a better position to succeed even if it's so evident that you're going to lose, keep trying... never stop, never quit. 

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THIS ONE TRICK ALWAYS WORK

This trick is probably one of the best tricks that I learned in my life. It's like magic, every time I use it I always get results, it's very simple all you have to do is take actions whenever you don't want to. Push yourself when you feel shy, lazy, sleepy, scared, tired or hesitant. Trust me it will bring you results. I used it a lot of times and it never fail me. Every time I look for a client when I am so tired and sleep I always get it. Every time I pushy myself to work whenever I feel lazy I always get the money, whenever I am scared and I just do it anyway good things happen. Test this technique and you will be amazed with the results that you will get, whenever you feel heavy... just do something, do what you are suppose to do. 

WHAT YOU FEEL IS JUST A TEST

How are you feeling right now? unmotivated? sleepy? lazy? scared? doubtful? not sure? confused? shy? that's good it's a sign that you must move forward. Every time there is a resistance there is always a prize. What you feel was just a test, if you can overcome that emotion then you are likely to succeed and get something. Overcome those ugly emotion and you will have a breakthrough. Just like asking a hot bitch for her number, you are scared, you are afraid to get rejected but once you did it... you will get her number, as simple as that, she will give it to you and both of you will flirt each other. Too simple right? whenever you feel hesitant to do it... just do it. You will never know the outcome if you're always holding yourself back, you have to let go, detach from your emotions and don't worry about what will happen next. Do it when you feel so slow, don't wait, just do it. Eventually you will feel motivated later once you have a little momentum. You will only feel confident when you're taking actions, not when you're waiting or procrastinating. You have to learn how to drag yourself to take actions because this is a competitive world, you have to be faster than everyone else if you want to thrive in life, there are many opportunities that are slipping from your hands because of your laziness, wake up and do something with your life, don't waste it for nothing, treat your life like the most precious thing that you have. 

Never care too much about your emotions, it is nothing, it will come and go, it will always change. Your emotions is nothing, it will never make you succeed, what you need to care about is your ability to take actions, are you moving forward still? are you still doing the right thing? you have to see yourself all the time, you have to force yourself to do the right thing even if you're not feeling well. 

IF YOU WANT POWER YOU HAVE TO BECOME A BIG TIME DOER

If you don't want to get pushed around, if you don't want to suffer forever, if you want something bigger than your life, if you don't want your kids to get bullied... you have to move, become a big time doer. You will only have power if you're doing well in life, if you have a direction and a strong foundation then you need to be an action taker not a procrastinator. Always look at yourself, are you moving? are you doing whatever it takes to succeed? or are you like other who keeps on wasting their time? you have to take matters into your own hands and do everything you can to get on top. You have to wrestle with the storm, face challenges, embrace your fears and never stop moving forward. Do everything you can to improve a little bit and repeat it a million times. There's no time for being lazy, there's no time for doing some random shits, you have to take over, take control of your life. Sacrifice big time, don't be late, don't be lazy, don't do it tomorrow... do it now. IT is what it is, success is hard but being broke is harder, which hard will you choose? you have to decide now what path are you going to take. 

Always remember that when it's uncomfortable then that's the time you need to move, you have to face all your heavy feelings and just do what you need to do. Sometimes all you need to do is show up, be a professional, be fast, give your very best and that's it. You don't need to become a superstar diva here, you don't need to become promoted to CEO, all you need to do is just do it. Control yourself, force yourself to take actions because that's the only thing that will keep you alive. Don't worry because it will become easier later, everything will flow and you don't need to force yourself anymore, you just need to build a strong momentum for now, start fast and finish with a flair. 

BE AWARE IF YOU'RE LAZY AND WASTING TIME

Time wasters doesn't know that they're wasting a lot of time, they're not aware of it, they simply love enjoying stupid entertainments, they will know it when it's already late, when they already have a broke life. That's why it's a necessity to be mindful all the time, be aware if you're just wasting time because it will destroy your good life. Be conscious of what you're doing, don't just do something because it is fun and easy, do something because it will give you a good life in the future. Laziness is an auto pilot mode, it's your habit that's why even if you don't want to be like that... you're still like that. That's why you need to use your willpower to change, you have to prioritize what you want to happen in your life and just think about it all the time. Accept that life is not easy and the only way to make it easier or lessen the pain is through actions, you have to become the hardest worker that you can be, enjoy the process and give everything you've got. Stop wasting time because it's the number one habit of losers, if you want to win then be productive, try to chase your goals, build something, become better everyday.  

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IT'S OK IF YOU DON'T HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF

Just keep trying, that confidence will come anytime soon. It's ok if you don't have confidence in yourself for as long as you're willing to move and try. Because the truth of the matter is... everyone is not confident in the beginning, people just become confident because they give themselves a chance to become confident. 

Every entertainer, every big time basketball player, every speaker, every successful people was not confident in the beginning. They become confident because they keep taking actions and they take risks. Some great performers were even sweating on their first performance, they were anxious to death, they were not themselves they were trying hard but look where they are now... so confident and feeling invincible. 

DON'T BE AFRAID TO FAIL

Just enjoy failing because it means you're growing. Don't be afraid to fail and try again, just keep trying and trying, success will show up in just a matter of time. You will find your rhythm, you will establish your own pace and discover your own style. Failing is normal, be a tryer, it's better to be trying than not. Losers didn't even dare to try, critics are so afraid of failing, they don't chase their own dreams. Still feel confident no matter how many losses you have, still move forward and never stop until you can't try anymore. Because the more you try the more you will get hungrier, you will be able to do the impossible, success will be attracted to you naturally. Have the courage to fail, that's all you need. Because success is not guaranteed, failure is but if you give your heart and soul to your dream then at least you have a chance of winning. 

Everyone fails, every great person failed in the past. Who are you to be scared of failing? it's just another chapter of your life, it will never make you a bad man. If you keep on failing it means you are brave, you can swallow that bitter pill, you can feel proud of yourself even if you don't have results. You are proud because you knew you give everything you've got and you never cower like a clown. 

JUST SHOW UP AND TRY

Show up even if you're scared, show up even if you feel like you're not going to win. If you don't have confidence in yourself then just at least try to become calm, don't rush things, be in the moment. Being present will give you confidence little by little. There's no harm in trying, so what if they laugh at you, so what if you're losing again and again, it's your life, it's your privilege to try, that's the best thing about being alive and human... you can try as much as you want, you're the only one who can stop yourself. Just keep trying, use it as your advantage... you can try a million times while everyone already quit on their second or third failure. 

You're not a star, you are nothing, nobody will notice you if you fail so just try, don't ever take your opportunities and life for granted, try as much as you can even if you don't want it because you already failed a lot of times. Always remember that the millions of failures you experienced will be erased by one sweet victory. 

TREAT THIS LIFE LIKE A GAME

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't blame yourself, don't hate yourself if you can't do the right thing. Don't curse yourself id you don't feel confident, it's alright, there is nothing wrong with you. Just have fun, things will become easier if you're having fun. Give your best but don't treat it seriously, don't think that your life depends on it, free yourself from the outcome. Because it is really like a game, life is like a game, success is a game, you have nothing to lose if you're enjoying it instead of feeling bad about it because you're not getting what you want. Because if you're in a child like state of mind then you will become more creative and enduring, your stamina will become stronger and your energy will become unlimited, it will be like all fun and games to you. 

YOU WILL NEVER BECOME CONFIDENT EVERYDAY

Confidence come and go. Just because you are confident now doesn't mean you will feel confident forever. And just because you don't have confidence now doesn't mean you will become scared forever. Emotions are like visitors they come and go, they never stay in your body forever. So don't feel worried if you're not confident at all, you can become confident later. Just remember to stay present, stay still and never rush things, you can pause, you can take it slowly... confidence will come if you work for it. So do it despite of feeling not confident, that confidence will show up if you focus on what you're doing and give your very best. Confidence is overrated, you don't need it to win, all you need is willpower and determination. All you need is your body and a mindset to just keep trying no matter what.  

YOU'RE ONLY DEFEATED IF YOU GIVE UP

Giving up is not an option, quitters are losers, for as long as you're trying you will never be considered as defeated. It's easy to give up and go home, it's harder to continue but it's really possible to never quit. There is something you can do, you have a lot of time, nothing can stop you. All it takes is one step forward and another and another. You can take it slowly but don't ever stop. If you can make yourself like a machine that never stop then success will be guaranteed to you. And the reality is... you will have regrets in life if you give up, the opportunity that you let go will always be on your mind, it will haunt you in your dreams, it will never make you sleep. 

MINDSET IS WHAT YOU NEED

Confidence is not what you need, mindset is. If you have the right mindset of just trying and never giving up then success will be yours, your hands will be raised. Confidence will not be felt everyday so why bother to force yourself to feel it? there will be many days that you don't feel like winning, there will be many days when you feel overwhelmed and scared. But the mindset, the strong mindset... it will never change. You can fix your mindset into winning and it can be permanent forever, no matter what happens your fixed mindset will never be shaken and changed.