Having an abundant mindset is really good but sometimes it can backfire at you if you're abusing it too much. Sometimes you are using it to showoff or impress people, you are using it to feed your ego and look rich to other people. You're spending a lot for many things that are not important, you're giving a lot, you're trying to look cool and generous but deep inside you're already worrying and feeling terrible because the bank is already calling you because you haven't paid your credit card yet. The electric bills, water bills, etc were not paid yet and you're still acting like you have a lot, you better wake up and stop your stupidity before it's too late. It's time to stop your bad spending habits and get serious about life. Discipline is the key here, stop spending your money if you don't have extras, stop trying to look good in social media, stop trying to look cool even if you're not. The reality will bite your ass in the end, if you're really broke then you will be exposed anytime soon.
YOU'RE SPENDING MONEY EVEN IF NOTHING IS COMING IN
Your business is going down, no money is coming yet you're still posting a lot of arrogant stuffs in social media about you thriving. You can't accept that sometimes life will test you, you're earning a lot before but no money is coming now yet you're still acting like a millionaire. You can't accept that you are losing, you can't earn money but the bad spending habits are still there. Sometimes all you need to do is stay humble and you will become successful, you don't need to show off, you don't need to brag, if you're really that rich then you don't need to tell it to everyone. Sometimes you have to admit to yourself that you made a lot of bad decisions and change the course of your actions, sometimes you need a slap in your face so that you will wake up.
KNOW THE RIGHT RATIO
If you're just earning 2000 dollars a month then why the hell will you spend 2500? are you crazy, the money that's coming in should be bigger than the money that's coming out, you should know when to stop spending. Discipline is much better than luck and pleasures, stop thinking that more money will come in so you have the right to spend all you have and never worry about tomorrow. Abundance is real but it's only real if you're using it right.
IT'S ABOUT READING THE SITUATION
Read the situation, just because you get use to buying Nike shoes before doesn't mean you should still buy it now, what if you're broke already? are you not open to using fake shoes? what if you don't have the money to afford it anymore? are you still going to but it? you need to take a step back and be practical. Abundance is not all about trying to look good and flashy, it's also about being smart and putting yourself on a better position even if you have to make some changes. Learn how to adjust, learn how to adapt and never feel sorry for yourself because you don't have the money to buy the things that you use to buy before. Read the situation and stop acting like a fool, don't be stupid spending all you have for the things that you don't even need just to impress the people that you don't even like.
ONLY GIVE IF YOU FEEL IT
Don't give a lot to people even if they need some help, you have to help your self first, stop being too generous because it will never help you at all. Sometimes you have to become selfish to put yourself on the best position, be generous later when you already have a lot. You don't need to avoid disappointing your friends and relatives, remember that you work hard for your money so they don't have the right to force you to give them anything, you can say no whenever you want to. Saying no is power, saying no means you're doing the right thing. Being generous has limitations, don't be afraid to be called as selfish, people can say whatever they want to, just be yourself and never be afraid to look bad. It's ok, just do what you need to do and always prioritize yourself. Because most of the time you're spending money because of what people think, your decisions in handling your money was based on what they're thinking. You don't need to convince them that you are rich and generous because at the end of the day some people will still judge you regardless if you're good or not.
LEARN TO BECOME THRIFTY SOMETIMES
Learn to wear fake brands, learn to eat not so delicious food, learn to cut your subscriptions to different products, learn to sell things if needed, sell your collection, sell what you can sell just to improve your situation a little bit. Learn how to swallow your pride, learn how to look poor, what people say doesn't matter at all. There's nothing wrong in buying the cheap things, so what if you look poor? so what if you look not classy? it's all about how you feel, if you can feel abundant with that style then there's no need to worry about what people say. Just focus on being you, focus on doing the best thing for your life.
YOU DON'T NEED TO HAVE A LOT TO FEEL ABUNDANT
You don't need to have a lot of food, clothes, money, friends to feel abundant. The real state of abundance is having the ability to appreciate what you have, what you have is enough, you don't need to have more, you don't need to feel needy of anything, just feel more by having less.
FORGET THE PAST AND START AGAIN TODAY
Remembering the past and trying to change it means you're not in a state of abundance. It means you're still needy of something that you can't change anymore, it's being hopeless and weak, there is no strength on that kind of mindset.
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