Most people were bragging about their strength or greatness, they're mocking other people whom they labeled as "weak", they were arrogant thinking that they were the strongest, but what they do not know is that weakness doesn't exist, people created it, weakness is never a weakness until it is applied. Weakness is a choice, weakness happens when you choose to become weak. You're not moving, you're not forcing your fate, you're not doing something to just make your situation a little bit better. Being weak means you're waiting, complaining and acting like a victim. It doesn't have anything to do about winning or becoming rich or famous, being weak simply means you give up and you're not giving yourself a chance to win a little bit. Weakness simply means taking your life for granted, you can move but you choose not to, you can do something positive but you choose to become a cry baby. You have something, you have resources, you have an idea, you know it's possible but you choose to act weak and accept what was given to you, in other words... you already quit on yourself and you let other people or other circumstances control your life.
Weak people are the ones who always loo for drama, they always look for validation, they always ask for help even though they were still strong. The weak ones focuses on what they can't control instead of focusing on their own lives.
DON'T AIM FOR A STRENGTH
Don't aim for a strength because it's just an illusion, all you have to do is live your life, try, give yourself a chance to experience defeat or success. Just live your life and never give up, don't look for dominance, don't look for being the number one, don't copy what other people are doing, don't look for comfort and security... just be yourself and do what you need to do. You don't need to look really strong here, just keep fighting and do whatever it takes to go further. Don't look for sympathy, don't have self pity, don't make dramas, just live one day at a time and try to get better everyday. Stop getting jealous with other people that you're seeing in social media, they look strong and powerful but you do not know if that was really their lives. You don't know what's going on behind the curtain. Focus on your own strength, stop focusing on your weaknesses, give strength your own definition and always feel strong even if there is something wrong in your life.
YOU'RE NOT WEAK IF YOU'RE TRYING
If you.re fat but you're really trying hard everyday to shred your weight then you're not weak. If you're broke but you're giving your all every single day then you're not weak. If you're sick but you're doing whatever it takes to survive then you're not weak. If you're getting bullied but you're fighting and surviving everyday then you're not weak. If you're losing and struggling but you're not giving up then you're not weak. Being weak means you already gave up on yourself, you already accepted your fate and you're not doing something to become better. If you decide to move forward even if you are slow, if you're decided that you're going to survive and improve a little bit then you're not weak. You don't need to look invincible here, you don't need to look like a savage. Just keep fighting and you're already strong. You can try as much as you want, you can try now, you can try tomorrow again, there's no harm in trying, you have unlimited tries... don't ever forget that. Just try, you have nothing to lose here, give yourself a chance to win in life.
EVERYONE IS A FIGHTER
You can fight, you can keep going, you can go further as much as you want. You can improve your situation a little bit, the power is in your hands. Everyone can fight but some people choose not to, there is nothing wrong with that but don't ever complain if you want something but you're not doing anything. The best option is to fight and face discomfort, face uncertainty, test yourself and believe that you can overcome or conquer anything. Embrace pain, fight for what you want, fight for your life, fight for your dreams. Choose to believe, choose to do something instead of letting life pass by, don't act like a useless clown, it all starts now, you just need to feel courageous a little bit, and even if you're too scared... just fake your courage and fight, stand up, make a stand for yourself, make a stand for what you believe, any belief is worth fighting for.
Don't be afraid to lose, it's better to lose and giving your best than hoping to win but playing it safe and choosing the comfortable path. It's easier to just take your life for granted and make dramas, it's easier to become negative and blame a lot of things but it will never help you at all, it will make you stuck, it will make you feel negative. You have to fight even if you're feeling weak, eventually you will get stronger as you keep persevering and pushing for what you want. Just weather any storm, take it one day at a time and never give up. The choice and power is always yours, you will feel powerful if you take matters into your own hands.
BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU'VE GOT
A little money, a little success, a little improvement, small circle of people or even not companions at all... be happy with what you've got and try to make it bigger if you will. The weak people focus on what they don't have and ignores what they have, that's why they get weaker and weaker everyday. They have too much complain, they're not using their resources and faculties, they can't appreciate what they have, they always look for more but will not even dare to try to get it.
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