The number one reason why you can't become successful is because you're changing too much. You're changing a lot, you always look for something to change, you feel that there is a need to change even if there is no needed to. You're changing the process if you just have tried the process for only one month, you're changing your shoes if you just used it for only one year, you're changing your partner once you see a sexier one, you'er changing your goal once you felt that it's too difficult, you're moving from one place to another once you felt that that place is not comfortable, you're changing your mindset, you're changing your plan, you always think that there is a need to change but the truth is there is no need to, you just don't want to become uncomfortable.
SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO EMBRACE WHAT YOU HAVE
Accept what you have and try to grow from it, stop changing a lot, change will happen naturally. Appreciate what you have and try to make the best out of it. Focus on the process and not on the outcome, you can't become successful because you can't learn how to become satisfied, you're always looking for better things even if you don't deserve it yet. If you can just be happy with what you have then you can evolve faster, you don't need to change because it's uncomfortable, you just need to change your mindset. Always remember that there is a reward waiting for you if you trust the process enough and stick to what you have.
Embrace it, be proud of what you have and always give your best. Never mind what other people are doing, never mind what other people are saying. Stick to the plan, stick to the process. Continue to love what you have even if it's not attractive anymore. It's like building a very strong foundation that will continue to live forever. Because if you can just be loyal to what you have and not looking for somethings that you think were better... you will be rewarded in the end. Embrace boredom, embrace ugliness, embrace what you don't like... you will see that in the end your decision is right. Look at those people who were always looking for comfort, look at those people who were too picky... they were always lost, they end up nowhere, they can't even build a momentum because they were always looking for a fresh start.
FOCUS ON THE PROCESS AND CHANGE WILL HAPPEN NATURALLY AND GRADUALLY
Don't look for a fast solution, focus on the process. If your girlfriend is getting uglier and uglier because of getting fatter everyday... don't leave her. Inspire her, encourage her to exercise, be the inspiration... lead and she will follow. Be patient because it takes time. Learn to love the process and you will feel much better rather than changing your girlfriend right away. Because it once changing for no reason becomes a habit... you will become addicted to it, you will never become satisfied, you will get lost. Just like in applying for a new loan after the other... some people will apply for a new car loan if they can't pay the previous car loan, they transfer from bank to bank and they ended up being buried in a huge debt. It's a hard life, it only looks good but deep inside there is fear and worries, sometimes some people even go crazy because of this kind of lifestyle.
So if there is a process that you think will work... keep doing it, keep working on it even if it's not working, sooner or later you will find a technique how to make it work, sometimes all it takes is a little more time for it to work. Don't quit right away if it's not working, try to make it work and never give up until you become successful. Because the most genius thing you can ever do to become happier is to never give up. Just keep pushing, keep trying and never give up until you make it happen.
LOOK AT YOURSELF, ARE YOU JUST TRYING TO ESCAPE?
Sometimes there is really no need for change. You just want the quick fix that is available. You think you can start all over again by changing the uncomfortable situation. It is cool but the only problem is... that's a quitter's mindset. That will become your habit, you will always quit every time it gets uncomfortable. You will never learn to embrace the pressure and uncertainty, you will always look for help and an easy way out which is not good for you. Don't try to escape, only losers do that, only quitters have that kind of mindset. Stick with what you have and believe that it can make you happy, because what you have is a blessing, you're just too picky that's why you can't appreciate it.
Stay there for a longer time. Give it some time to grow, give yourself a chance to appreciate it. Patience is a virtue, patience will give you deeper understanding of things. Just stick with what you have for a longer time and you will find the bigger value of it.
SUCCESS IS ALL ABOUT COMMITMENT
Committed to your relationship, committed to the process, committed to growth, committed to finishing something, committed to your assets. You can never make something work if you're always changing from time to time, you need time and effort to make something beautiful, you need to stop losing your appetite so fast on the things and people that you have. If you're committed enough, if you can make sacrifices then you can make something work, as simple as that. All you have to do is be loyal and your life will become much better, problems will be lessen if you stay loyal, you will find a better way if you're loyal. So just stay committed even if it's hard, everything will become easier later, you will become happy, everything will be alright.
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