Sep 15, 2019

THE ONLY OBSTACLE IS FEAR

It's not how big the challenge is, it's not your lack of skill, it's not your inability to understand or do what great people does... it's your inability to conquer your fears. Fear is the only obstacle, fear is manipulating and poisoning your mind. Fear is stopping you from taking the first step. If you can only conquer your fears then you will take the first step, you will forget what you don't have and focus on what you have... as simple as that. Fear is holding the steering wheel and it's your duty to steal it and be the driver of your own fate. So if you're planning to buy a big house... you get intimidated right? you're thinking about how difficult it is to get it, you're starting to think negatively, a lot of things were playing inside of your head, you will entertain a lot of What IFs, what if it didn't work? what if I can't pay it? what if something terribly bad happens? Those what ifs where immobilizing you, it's stopping you from taking actions.

You see, it's not really the challenge that is creating the obstacle, it's the fear. Fear of losing, fear of failing, fear of tragedy etc. etc. You're so scared right before the show even begin. You're counting yourself out, you under estimate yourself, you're always focused on what you can't do, you're always looking at what is lacking in your life. That is the main reason why you can't become successful, you're letting your fears take over, you don't want to play with the challenges, you don't want to somehow find a way how to win. But if you will just go further and give your full maximum effort then somehow you will prevail, you will find a way how to win. Don't pressure yourself too much, remember that this is just a game and all you have to do is enjoy it, have fun while the journey is going on and always give your very best every single day.

Never look at the challenge in front of you, don't get intimidated by it. Just only be aware if you're scaring yourself or not. Because the truth is... you're the one who scare yourself, you're the one who created illusions that are stopping you from taking actions. It's ok to become scared but you still need to take actions, you need to overpower it with massive massive actions, if you will just move forward all the time then you will be erase your fears, you will be able to forget it and just try to win. The only obstacle is fear and nothing else, if you can't get rid of it then learn how to enjoy it, learn how to be in the moment and feel it second by second. Never let fear dictate your fate, just go with it, never let it control your mind.

Once you find a way how to control your fear then lesser resistance will be felt, you will feel free, you will begin to realize that it's alright and that there is nothing wrong in feeling it. You're still alive, you're still in the game, you can still do something to win and become successful. Fear is never real, there is no sufficient evidence that your fears were real, you just keep thinking about it that's why all of the things connected with it manifest little by little until it becomes a reality. The good thing about fear is you can over write it, focus on the more powerful thoughts that are making you feel better. Focus on the ideas and information that will keep you motivated all the time.

WHAT IS THERE LEFT TO LOSE?

Everything you have is not yours, it will not be yours forever, once you're already dead... it's all over. This is just a game, you must enjoy your life while you're still alive. There is nothing to lose here, you have everything to gain. So play the right way, use your courage, use your strength. You can win if you will go all in, stop waiting for the right time to start because the perfect time to start is when you feel not ready. Never let your negative emotions fool you. You're always in control here. Don't act like you have a lot to lose because you start having nothing and you will end up having nothing. So keep giving your best and experience what you can experience. Life is just a game, play it the right way or else you will be the one who will be played by it.

You don't need to conquer your fear, you just need to feel it, feel it and it will be gone. Fear becomes stronger and stronger every time you resist it but if you will train your mind to adapt to any kind of situation then your fear will go away. So whatever you need to do... just do it, just start now. Your fear will become your slave if you keep taking actions all the time. Let your willpower be your guide, let it become your source of strength. All you need to do is keep pushing and moving forward all the time and that's it. Set your mind, fix your mind to taking actions and never stop until you win.

So just do it, stop thinking about anything else and just do it. Get it, catch it, write it, burn it, win it, own it, start it, make it yours. Whatever you can do... do it now so that your fear will become weak. Your fear becomes weaker and weaker every time you take actions. So do whatever it takes to win in life, the choice is yours, the power is yours, you just have to do it.

And even if you fail, at leas you try, at least you know how it feels to give your very best. At least you know how it feels to go all out and be one with your dream. Be proud of yourself because most people were not willing to go the extra mile, most of them were too scared to create their own path, most of them doesn't believe in themselves that's why they can never succeed. Be different, think different, be the master of your own fate, be the creator own your own destiny. Always remember that you don't need anything else, you just need to learn how to deal with your fears, it's the only obstacle along the way, it's easy to defeat it... just feel it and never resist. 

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