Confidence is simply a state of mind. Confidence is what you need to become successful, confidence is hard to achieve if you have a wrong mindset. Confidence can be achieved through a lot of experience, because you will no longer be afraid of something that you already seen in the past. Confidence will come on you if you're willing to embrace the moment, if you're not attached to anything and you're willing to go further as much as you can. You can feel confident anytime you want to, you can change your weak personality to confident and winning mentality that can thrive in any given situation.
1. KEEP FAILING. This is one of the best way to become confident... keep failing, keep trying, keep gaining that experience. You're not a failure when you fail, you only learn something, you only experience a painful experience which will turn you into a different person. So what if you fail? everybody fails, even the greatest ones fails. Keep failing because it means you're leveling up, never give up and push as much as you can. Failing over and over again means you really want it, it means you're willing to learn and do whatever it takes to win. You will become more confident if you're failing because you already knows how it feels, that feeling of rejection, being denied or not getting what you want will not scare you anymore because you already knew how to handle it, you will not even lose a single night of sleep when you already failed a lot of times, it's nothing new anymore, it will never hurt you anymore and you will try again next time.
Failing will give you confidence because every time you experience it... you will absorb the painful feeling of that experience, it will make you mentally tough. You will no longer be afraid of what people say, you will never be afraid of critics anymore, you will learn how to bounce back and you will accept that it is just part of life, it's part of the process. It's part of evolution of your consciousness and there is really nothing to be afraid of. You will understand that winning is not that important, what matters is you're doing the process and you have no plan of quitting. Deep inside you feel that you're already a winner because nothing else matters other than the process.
2. WORK THE HARDEST. Hard work will stretch your mind, hard work will never make you feel inferior anymore. If you know in yourself that you can work hard anytime you want then you will always feel confident, if you know that you can learn anything through hard work then your value will increase. You will never be afraid of losing your job, you will never be afraid if you don't have money anymore. Because deep inside you just knew that hard work will save you. You have the work ethic that will put you on a better position. You're so confident because you're willing to face every adversity and difficulty just to get the job done, just to make your situation a little bit. Just believe in hard work because it's so effective, you can trust it, it will never let you down. Just use hard work and you're already good.
If you can work the hardest then you will become a different animal. You will go to a different level, you will feel like you're cut from a different cloth. Working hard is easy if you will embrace it, what's so hard about it? you will just work. Every work is hard work if you're taking it seriously. All you have to do is show up, give your best and stretch yourself a little bit, leave your comfort zone, always have the mindset that you can do more and be more. Stop settling for lesser than what you can have. You can always do more if you will work hard, you can always see the bigger things. Just work hard and that's it. Too easy, confidence will come because you will see results if you work hard, you will never get zero, you will always gain something. So whenever you feel not confident... it means you're not working hard enough, look for something to do and focus on it and soon your confidence will come back.
3. PRACTICE THE NO REGRETS MOTTO. Whatever you do, whatever decision you made... always have the mindset of no regrets. What will happen will happen, accept the consequences. whatever you do and whatever you will do, always say that you will have no regrets. You will accept what will happen next, embrace it with all your hear... that kind of mentality will make you every confident.
4. BE HUMBLE. If you're humble there will be no pressure and if there's no pressure then you will be able to express yourself even more, you will become confident. Stay humble so you don't have to prove yourself anymore, stay humble so that life will become easier. Being humble will make you feel free, you have nothing to lose, you don't need to please anyone, you are free to be yourself, you don't need to compare, you don't need to force them to believe you that you are great. You will become more confident because you are confident admitting your weaknesses and flaws. You are ok admitting that you don't have money or you can't do something, you are not trying to impress anyone and that makes you feel so free and expressive.
5. DETACHED FROM ANYTHING. If you don't have it then you don't have it, don't ever think that you need it. If it was not given to you then so what? Learn to detach from anything, always think that you don't need anything. Having this kind of mentality will make you get more, it's because everything else will feel like a blessing. Everything that you get no matter how small or big it is will feel like a blessing You will feel confident that you are getting luckier and luckier each day. If you don't need anything then you have nothing to lose. You don't need attention, you don't need recognition, you don't need to look great... you will feel invincible and people will feel it. They will feel that you are so confident because you don't need them. And if you don't need them then they will need you because you're such a different character.
You just feel good having nothing. You don't have money fine, you don't have a beautiful life it's ok too. And the more you accept that you don't need anything, you will become more confident because you have nothing to lose. Everything is a gain, everything is a bonus, every experience feels great because you just knew that life is all about experiencing, it's not about dominating, it's not about looking like the best, it's about experiencing and accepting that you don't have this or have that and you're ok with that. Most people were insecure because they need something just to feel good, if you don't need anything such as attention, money or anything outside of you... you will feel so confident.
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