Sep 24, 2019

IT'S OK IF YOU'RE NOT READY, JUST BE READY TO FAIL


If you want to make progress then always be ready to fail... that's how to get the job done. Feel good after failing, feel nothing if someone rejects you, it only means that you are progressing and learning, it only means that you're becoming closer and closer from what you want. Failing is normal, don't be afraid of it. Once you become scared of failing you will not even try at all. Stop thinking about the future and learn to fail now. Once you fail... ignore it, ignore what are the consequences by failing and move on, live your life again. Go all in, give your best, enjoy the process even if you know that there is a big chance that you might fail. Always think that enjoying your work is a habit, regardless if you succeed or fail... enjoy it so that you will attract better opportunities. Because the people who can enjoy their work the most are the ones who will succeed. Look at the people who hate their work... they were so miserable, they were always complaining, give them a raise and they will still complain how small their raise is. Promote them and they will complain that the job gets harder, they don't know how to become happy anymore because they don't know how to enjoy their job.

Be ready to fail, because it's impossible that you're going to become successful right away especially if you're aiming for something big, especially if you don't know specifically how are you going to get it. Just do it, just start and enjoy the process, learn every lesson you can learn and always keep so that you can do better next time. Just keep moving forward because every time you do it you are making yourself closer and closer from your dreams.

FAILING IS A NORMAL THING

Failing is nothing, most people were so scared of failing and that's why they can't even succeed. There is nothing negative about failing, actually... failing is just an illusion. There is no winner or loser here, if you give your best and try with all your might then you're already a winner. People are the only ones who give a specific definition to what winning or losing is. So stop crying once you fail, it's ok, all you need to do to cover it is to try again, work again. Because even if you win... you will still need to work, your work doesn't end there, you need to work forever to sustain balance in your life. Because you will go crazy if you're not working anymore. Focus on trying one more time, focus on working... that's how to make your life easier and better.

Be ready to fail, the good thing about failing is you can stand up again, you can never be down forever, you can stand up again and go back to work right away.

IT'S ALL ABOUT TRYING FOR ONE MORE TIME

Success is not about how good you are, it's not about how talented or blessed you are... it's how persevering and tough you are, it's not about being the most favorite to win, it's about creating your own path and enjoying every step of the way. Of course you will fail, there will be challenges, there will be obstacles but if you can push yourself to try again for one more time then things will get better. Never give up because you will never succeed if you do. Winners never quit they just keep moving forward until they become successful, they keep pushing even if they feel so weak, they want to see the finish line, they want to see what they can really do and achieve. Just don't be a quitter and you will become a winner, as simple as that. Most people nowadays were quitters, they don't want to go further and test their limits, all they want to do is feel good and that's why they can't go to the next level.

So work even if you're not ready, just be ready to fail and learn to keep the lessons that you will get from it. Always remember that failing is the key to success, the more you fail the more you speed up the process. Failing is too normal, there is nothing wrong with it. Just keep failing and working... one day is going to be your day.

Because you will never become ready, even if you work hard and prepare for it too much... there will still be doubts and fears, you will still question yourself if it is for you or not.

Because time will never wait for you. You will always be left behind if you're waiting for the right time. Use your time very well and never squander any second of it. Time is the most important ingredient for success, use it very well and you will have a very good life, wast it and your life will be wasted. Just don't be scared to start, you have to be a fast starter and at the same time strong finisher, have that killer instinct, always give your very best and bring your A game even if you're not sure that you're going to win.

Looking for the right time is the main reason why you procrastinate. You should start now, make a big decision now, stop waiting to feel good before you pull the trigger, waiting for the right timing is overrated, what if the right timing is now? what if your instincts were wrong and the best time to do it is now? Don't worry because even if you made a mistake now, you can always correct it later, you can make adjustments and do the necessary changes.

Embrace everything that may happen, win or lose, right or wrong... accept the consequences. No decision is wrong if you will not regret any of it. It only becomes wrong because you're focused on regretting it. Forget your regrets, move on once you made a mistake, try again later or tomorrow... forget perfection because it's just an illusion. Always remember that you can try again, there is always a next time, you can always correct your mistakes, you have nothing to lose here. 

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