To make your life easier, to live a happier and easier life... treat everything as neutral, treat everything as normal and usual. If it is hard don't think that it is hard, if it is bad don't think that it's bad, treat it as neutral, it is nothing, you are still alive right? it's only bad if you're going to die, if you're still breathing, if you're still thinking... you're lucky. Sometimes it's all about the perspective, what you think and what you see will be your reality. Sometimes the situation is not really bad but you're just being dramatic and soft about it, you're making it a big deal and that is why you're feeling worse. Treat everything as neutral, treat everything as normal and you will never have a hard time moving on.
So what if you're down?, you can always make a comeback, you can always climb again. So what if you're losing? you can always win next time, life is easy if you will just move forward and forget the bad things that happened to you today. If someone disrespects you so be it, if someone bullied you so be it. You can treat it as nothing, if you have the ability to ignore what you don't like then you will see more of what you really life. Life is simple what you see it, if you always see someone or something doing bad to you... you will attract more of it, if you're always mad and always thinking like a victim then you will never succeed. You really need to have a positive mindset here if you want to succeed big time, you can't be acting like a victim everyday.
If you lose money then just try to earn money again, if you're late because of traffic then just try not to be late tomorrow, if your lover left you then try to find another lover, if you're sick now then just do something to heal yourself. Life is so simple, you don't need to complicate it, if you can treat everything as neutral then it will be easier for you to make a progress in your life. There is no good, there is no bad, everything happens for a reason, everything that you're experiencing is all just part of a cycle called life. So when you're down now... don't think that you're going to be down forever, you can change your life, you can improve your situation if you will take actions.
A MINDSET THAT WANTS TO MOVE FORWARD ALL THE TIME
Having this kind of mindset will make you easier to adjust with any kind of situation. Just move on, just move forward and stop thinking about the negative things and people around you. Thinking and feeling them, getting emotional because of them will never make you evolve, you will become stuck in a mud if you're always dwelling with the ugly things in your life. Just learn how to focus on the beauty of life, learn to move forward and see the possibilities of living a better life. It is not hard to do, just keep moving forward, keep doing your own thing. Your life will become more prosperous if you will focus on taking actions towards your dreams, focus on what you want and never look on what you don't want, as simple as that. You know what you want and you know what to do so stop giving time for things and people that will not even help you to succeed, just focus on the activities that will make you successful and grow.
FACE ALL THE POSSIBILITIES
This is the best way to make your life easier, face all the possibilities, experience what you need to experience. Accept what will happen, accept what is about to happen, face the truth because it will set you free. There is a possibility that you may fail, there is a possibility that you will lose but so what? you're still alive, you can still do the things that you need to do to have a better life, stop acting like a loser because you will never get anything from doing that. There is also a possibility that you may win and become successful and after you become one... stay humble, always stay neutral, getting it inside of your head will make you fail, never let your head grow big, always stay simple and neutral and keep getting success every now and then, treat it as a normal day in your life, never treat success as a big thing because it is nothing, the most important thing is you're having fun with your life.
Treating everything as neutral will make you look invincible, you will keep your head cool, you will stay calm and positive, you will never get too high nor too low, you will shine because you're not worried at all, you're not even worried if you don't shine because it's nothing to you, your focus is to live and grow, your focus is to simply become better each day, there is no pressure on your side. You don't care if you lose for so how many times because you just knew that moving forward is the key to have a better life and not just succeeding or winning or having a comfortable life. You dissed off comfort, you don't care about it, you know that life is a process and comfort is not a big deal because it will never make you grow, there is no growth in comfort but why are so people addicted to it? it 's because it's easy, and that's why only few people become successful and see their full potential.
STAY PRESENT, ENJOY WHAT IS GOING ON NO MATTER HOW UNATTRACTIVE IT WAS
All you can do is enjoy what is in front of you, that is the best way to feel good despite of the uncomfortable situation that you are in. You can never control everything but you can control your mind and emotions, you can feel happy when everyone is sad, you can feel positive when everyone is already quitting. Always be in the moment, appreciate what is in front of you. Appreciate the traffic, appreciate the cold soup, appreciate the effort of other people even if it is not big, appreciate your life even if you're feeling bad. You can enjoy anything, you can even enjoy the noise or the bad smell of the person beside you, it's just a matter of conditioning your mind. Always remember that having the ability to appreciate everything around you is mental toughness to another level, you're a very strong person if you can do that.
Because trying to escape your situation is not a good idea, it's like leaving your responsibility. It is a form of cowardice, you're not a coward right? so face what is in front of you, say what you need to say, look at what you need to look at, feel what you don't want to feel. Staying present will make you realize that the situation is not really that bad at all. So don't rush, don't look for a better situation if you're on an ugly spot, endure it, accept it if you can't do anything about it anymore. There is no reason to hide, there is no reason to stay away from it, you need to face it and feel it and see what will it make you.
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