STAY AGGRESSIVE

If you can stay aggressive your whole life then you will live a totally different life. Success has no time for people who are shy and cannot make decisions right away. You need to stay aggressive but of course aggressive in the right way, not something who is like a raging bull that is out of control.

Staying aggressive will make you stand out. Just like someone who is trying out for a spot in a particular basketball team, a coach will be impressed with someone who is more aggressive than someone who is not.

Just use all of your energy while doing something, give your best every second. It is not hard to do, all you have to do is become bold and use all of your strength. Never rest until you get what you want.

Just like courting a girl... you need to stay aggressive because if not... the girl will get cold, the momentum will die and the girl will be turned off at you. She will ignore you because she will think that you're not serious, she will even think that you're a gay. So stay aggressive and release all of your pick up lines, even if you feel shy and uncomfortable... you need to let her feel that you want her and you're willing to take her home. Stay aggressive but still act like a gentleman, remember that even though you're aggressive... you still need to act with class.

Staying aggressive will produce results, it is far way better than just waiting and wishing for something to happen. You need to show them that you want it, you need to keep making motions that will put you on a better position.

The more you become aggressive, the more you will become lucky. You will get different opportunities, people will feel you, people will see you. They will give you a chance and they will appreciate your tremendous usage of energy.

You can give people different emotions by simply being aggressive. Your opponents might get scared of you, your clients will become very happy because you can finish tasks faster than expected.

HOW TO BECOME AGGRESSIVE EVEN IF IT'S NOT YOUR PERSONALITY?

1. Don't think. Don't think about how are you gong to do it, just be spontaneous, keep moving and keep pushing forward. Execute actions that you know will produce results. Just do it and never stop until you become successful. Thinking is a mortal sin if you want to make results, it will only slow you down, it will make you worried and make mistakes. If you will not think and just do it then you will go further than expected. Don't think and just keep enjoying taking actions, making a move is more better than just planning to become perfect, planning will never get you to anywhere, it is just giving you an idea but it's nothing more than that. The truth is... you can think while you're taking actions but you can't take actions if you're just thinking and worrying about every single detail that is not even important.

2. Think about your failures by being passive. Look at yourself in the past, what did you get by staying passive? what did you get by not going directly to your dreams? did you become a winner by staying quiet and wishing for the opportunity to come into your life? You keep on failing by being conservative and soft, you need to man up, be a wild warrior and go for what you want regardless of the possible outcome.

3. Think about what you want. Always think about what you want, what do you want? your goal right? it can be a girl, a car, a particular amount of money, a house etc. Those are the things that you want. So it's time to stop thinking about what people say, stop thinking about the problems, humiliations, embarrassment and any other things that is not even connected to what you want. You don't want what they are telling to you so why keep focusing on those things? you don't want people who is bringing you down and making you feel bad so why are you still talking to them and thinking about them? just focus on what you want and be aggressive in pursuing it.

4. Destroy your identity. You're not even popular so why are you so afraid of failing?  you're not even a millionaire, a celebrity or a person with a big name so why are you afraid of trying? destroy your identity so you will become aggressive, forget about your name being tarnished because you really don't have a name. Just be yourself and give your best, go for what you want, be near with it and do everything you can to get it... period.

5. Accept that rejection is part of your life. If you got rejected by someone then just laugh at it and stay aggressive. It's ok to get rejected, it will not even harm you, it can hurt you emotionally but once you are through with that emotion... you become a better person, you are stronger than yesterday. Don't be afraid of getting rejected because it is nothing, it doesn't mean anything. It doesn't mean that you're weak, ugly or unksilled. It happens to anyone, just have fun with it and don't forget to learn the lesson.

6. Program your mind that the harder it gets the more you become aggressive. Fight force with force, if the situation gets harder then that is the time that you must work harder. Never give up, you have to push no matter what, if you have to die getting your dreams so be it. Because you will never die, you will get it when you're about to die, your goal will give up on you once it sees that you have no intention of giving up. 

7. Be alone if needed.  Sometimes you have to do it on your own because no one is willing to help you. If you need to do it on your own then do it, people are so hesitant, they are so scared as fuck that is why they can't achieve anything. Do it even if success is not guaranteed. You don't need help if you really want to do something, all you have to do is move your feet and hands and use your brain a little bit. This is a journey homie, if you will rely on other people's help then that will stop your aggressiveness. A lot of people were so afraid to do it on their own because they were so afraid to get criticized when they fail. But you are different, you are willing to leave it all on the line just to get what you want. Don't be afraid to go alone because most people that are alone are the ones who become successful in life.

8. Accept that you might fail. If you can openly accept that you might fail without having any regrets then you will become more aggressive, you have nothing to lose because failure is your default, all that is waiting for you is victory. If you fail..so what, if you win then good for you. Accepting that you might fail will lessen the pressure on you. Don't be a sore loser, accept failure so that it will be easier for you to win. Failing is just another day in your life, people are so scared to fail because they think that failing means being a failure, failing only means you are brave and you are not scared of the emotions that failing might give you. If you get embarrassed so be it, accept it and try to move on as fast as you can.

9. Just fall in love with the idea of trying. If you will think that simply trying will make you a winner then you will become aggressive even more. You will feel free and loose, you will think that the more you try the more you become a winner. Just fall in love with the idea of trying, there is no harm in trying, all it can give you is chances. You will have a very big chance of bringing it all home if you try. People were so afraid to try because they think that it's not free, trying is free and you can try as many as you can.. that is the beauty of it.

10. Celebrate little success. Even if the success is so little, celebrate it. If it gives you happiness then it is already a success, don't be shy if you are just getting little success every now and then. Be proud of it, celebrate it and multiply it as many as you can. Little success will give you motivation, it will make you more aggressive, so record all of your little successes and celebrate all of them.

11. Have a little pride. Use your ego, are you just going to live your life not getting what you want? are you just going to let them win and you are losing? have pride, you can do better than what you're doing now. You can push a little harder, you can work a little longer, you can achieve more results. Have pride in your work and let people know that you can do better and produce better. 

In this mean world, you need to move faster and decide bolder. Always stay aggressive so that you will be able to give yourself a better chance of winning. Never wait because that is only a waste of time. Forget about the people who were telling you that you are not good enough so stop trying hard and stay on your lane. Some people were just jealous of you, they can't do what you can't do so they will try to make you feel bad.

There is nothing wrong in being aggressive and assertive, it is your life, you can decide what type of pace to follow, you can be yourself anytime you want and dictate the momentum of your journey. If you're not aggressive in following your dreams then you should think again. Time is running out, you think you have a lot of chance and you can do it better next time? you are only fooling yourself, the right time is now. The right time to tell a girl that you love her is now, the right time to make a bold move for your career is now, the right time to shut down a bully is now, the right time to end a bad friendship is now. No one can stop you if you will not stop yourself.

You need to make a bold move now or else you will end up getting the things that you don't like. If being aggressive is the only choice you have then take it. Even if you're only a shy type of person before.. change your identity and make a bold statement of what you want. If you can't do it... then quit and start pursuing something else that is more comfortable.

Accept that what you want is hard to get, it is uncomfortable, you need to fight for it to get it. You need to take matters into your own hands and make things happen. If you will act like a gentle baby then nothing will happen to you. Sometimes you need to get mean and nasty, sometimes you need to become super aggressive and offend people, it is what it is, this generation now is full of mean and bad people, if you will stay kind and gentle then you will never get what you want. Somebody will steal your dreams and you will just cry somewhere in the corner blaming other people, blaming that the world is unfair and it owes you something.

You don't need a special treatment, you need to treat yourself right, think right and grant yourself the things and opportunities that you think you deserve.