Getting rejected is one of the most painful feelings that you can ever feel. You feel like ugly, useless and less important. You feel that your value in this world is not appreciated and you don't know what to do after experiencing it. Getting rejected causes depression especially if you have a very weak emotional immune system. You will think about it everyday, you will imagine that you're not rejected yet and you're accepted. But it will only make your situation worse, remembering a negative past will only make you stuck in a mud. Here is what you need to do if someone rejected you:
1. Think that she's just an ordinary human being. You make the rejection even painful because you think that the person who rejected you is special and one of a kind, you think that she's the only girl. You think that she's your destiny, you expected a lot that is why you feel more pain. Remember that there is a better person waiting for you and all you have to do is forget her. You are special too, think that she is the one who lost someone valuable not you. She is nothing special so you should not make it a big deal, you can find someone much better than her if you will think right.
2. Court another girl. Replace her instantly, find another sexy and gorgeous girl in your neighborhood. Fall in love with the new girl and make the person who rejected you know that you can replace her instantly as fast as five seconds. Play with your emotions, at least you are feeling something, the truth is you would rather feel pain than not feeling anything at all. Dating another woman will make you forget the ugly fast very quick.
3. Make yourself better. You should feel good so you will forget the painful fast easily. Go to the gym, lift heavy weights, go to different seminars to make yourself better. Treat yourself, well at least you will be able to save more money because you are not spending for someone. Making yourself better will make you realize how valuable you are and that the person who rejected you doesn't deserve you.
4. Focus your attention into something. Focus on something else and be very good at it. It can be arts, business or anything that will make you forget her. Be so good that you will feel love for yourself and see how valuable you are. You can enjoy life even more if you will focus your attention into something and be the best you can be. Your mind will be entertained and you will forget the person who rejected you.
5. Adapt a dog. Dogs are very loyal and will never leave you. It will be on your side forever and is willing to catch some of your burden. Adapting a dog will make you feel that love is real, you will never feel alone anymore, you will recover easily. Adapt a dog and love it truly and passionately.
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