MAKE NOTHING AS YOUR DEFAULT

What is your default? because your default plays a major role in your life. Your default can harm you or help you. Some people.. if they are trying something, if they are pursuing a goal... their default is always perfection, they expect perfection, they are waiting for instant success. That is why if things didn't turn out they way they expect it... they feel really bad, they will quit so fast and they will make excuses.

There is nothing wrong in giving your best and hoping for the best but if you are expecting too much and always dreaming of a perfect life then you are only setting yourself up for disappointment. Keep in mind that when you come into this world, the first time you breathe the air of earth... you don't have anything in your hands, you are not holding anything, you don't own anything. And in the end, that is the same thing that will happen... you will leave this world holding nothing so what is it to get mad about if you don't get what you want?

Your default is not success, you should realize that, you came from nothing. Success is just a bonus, getting what you want is just a bonus and an extra part of your life... it is not your life. So don't ever think that your life should be perfect, don't aim for a perfect record because when it's all said and done, when your not in this world anymore... people will still forget you. Even if you're the richest man or the most successful man, people will still forget you. There is no such thing as legacy, it is just an illusion. And even if that's real, are you still going to see your legacy when you die? nothing will remain, people might talk about your life for seconds but in reality... you don't exist anymore.

So always make nothing as your default, if you try and didn't succeed.. it is nothing, if someone is succeeding and you're not.. it is nothing. You will feel good if you will remember that you have nothing in this world, you don't own anything. You are just here to experience life and if you will use your precious time looking for the things that you don't have... you are just wasting your life.

You can be happy anytime you want, you don't need to look for the things that you don't have. You don't need to feel bad if you're not succeeding, you are here to experience life and experiencing life means just living and embracing all the things that are happening around you. Just give your best and if nothing works then try again, it is nothing, it is not your responsibility to become successful. Because the truth is... if you're happy and using all of your skills and gifts then you're already successful. Define your own success, make it simple, if you want to push then push but if you fail... just laugh at it. Forget about what other people are trying to say. Remember that you define your own success and nothing can manipulate it.

IT'S YOUR EGO THAT IS FEEDING YOU THE WRONG INFORMATION

You think that you need to become better than everyone, you think that you need to have this or have that to become happy. Happiness is simplicity, the more simpler you are the more it will become easy for you to become happy.

Even you only have small amount of money, you still have more because your default is nothing. So you still should be happy and not become needy, you should still appreciate that you have something in your pocket. But if you have debts then that is the time that you should be ashamed of yourself. Remember that zero is your default and anything lesser than zero is unacceptable. You don't have debts when you come into this world so you should leave this world without debts also.

There will be lesser pressure on your side if you will always think that you really have nothing and every gain should be appreciated. Feel happy if you achieve a little success because you are really not successful before. You are nothing before. It is only a win win situation for you if you try because you are giving yourself a chance to have something else. You can never lose because you have nothing before, you're not a winner before, always remember that.

But it doesn't mean that you can afford to become lazy and do nothing with your life. Of course you still need to work hard and be the best that you can be so you will be able to experience life even more. The point here is... try to achieve perfection but don't feel bad if everything is not perfect, don't cry like a bitch if you can't have what you want because you already have a lot in your life. All you need to do is appreciate it. You just think that you have less because you're always looking for people that have what you don't have, you're a jealous son of a bitch that is why you can't be happy with your own life.

LIFE IS VERY EASY IF YOU WILL NOT PRESSURE YOURSELF TO BECOME NUMBER ONE.

You don't need to compare yourself with others, if you think you're the greatest and you're really working hard then you are the greatest. No need to prove this narrative to others, no need to tell them that you are the greatest. Just be yourself, never compete because it's just a waste of energy and time, you only need to compete with yourself. Always see to it if you're not doing better than yesterday. It is already given that you should match your work from the past because you already did it, working lesser than your true capabilities is not acceptable, it's laziness, it's not living your life to the fullest. Because you can always do better than what you did from the past. You can always improve and achieve a little bit better.

JUST SIMPLY LOVE LIFE AND YOU WILL BECOME HAPPY AND SUCCESSFUL.

A lot of people were so frustrated because they can't love their life, they were complaining a lot, they are always looking for what is missing in their lives. Nothing is missing in your life if you will appreciate and accept your life. Just be yourself, be honest, sincere and true. Be happy with what you have because not all people can have it. Some people have lesser than you but they manage to become happier than you. Why is that? even if you feel proud because you have more than what they have, you're still a loser because they're happier than you. The key here is to love life, embrace anything that is happening with your life, don't think too much, just move and enjoy living everyday. Who can love his life more is more successful, he is more happier and satisfied, he feels that he is fulfilled and nothing is missing in his life. And that is why it is easier for him to become successful and do extraordinary things. Loving your life will open opportunities for you, it will welcome the blessings, you will feel good everyday, you will feel motivated, secured and blessed.

Even if you're on a bad position right now... still love life because you only have one life, don't waste it like everyone else who is focusing their time and energy for dramas and shits. It is too easy to live, just always give your best, endure the hardships, enjoy the process and never become needy... ever. Being needy is like poisoning yourself, you're looking for attention, appreciation and rewards that you don't deserve. You are wishing for something that will never be yours.

Just live naturally, always remember that you have nothing, you have zero properties and you are very lucky because you have clothes, a house or apartment, small amount of money, etc. And even if you don't have those things... you are still lucky because you are living, some people can't live anymore, some people were already gone and completely forgotten.

You're so lucky, you just don't see it because you're full of jealousy, hatred and neediness. You're full of dramas and shits. Life is hard, it really is but you can always make it easier with your perspective in life. If you will only think that everything will become alright, if you will just think that all you can get is experience then life will become easier for you. You will never lose in life, even if you lose in a game or you didn't get your goal... you're still a winner because you try and you experience a lot of things. Winning and losing doesn't exist, it is only another experience in life, you will see this when you get old, when everything has no meaning to you anymore. Look at the old people who were about to die... they don't care anymore, all they want is to become happy for the last second of their life. They don't care about things, achievements etc. All they want is their family and a little love.

That is what most people forget these days, they think that they can live forever. They think that they all have the time to become mad at something, they think that it is ok to waste a day not feeling good. They waste most of their time thinking about their problems. They think they are going to live forever.

JUST ENJOY WHAT IS GOING ON IF YOU CAN'T DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

You can enjoy everything in your life, even if your neighbor is playing loud music... you can still enjoy it by listening to it. It sounds weird but the truth is it is possible. You cannot control everything in your life but you can control how you think and feel. Don't focus on what you can't control because that will only make you feel bad and weak. That will feed your ego, you will try to prove yourself to others which is not needed.

Good or bad, it is still part of your life so don't feel bad about it. Just be appreciative of what is going on because you are so lucky because you can still experience it. You are still living and there are lot of good things that may still happen. It is always a win win situation for you because you are always ready to experience another different experience.

Don't be too picky, don't be too choosy, just accept what is presented and try to appreciate it. If you can't appreciate it then just try to make it better, try to improve it, don't curse it because it is what it is. You can only do something, sometimes you don't have a choice in what will come into your life.

PEOPLE HAVE HIGH STANDARDS BUT THEY ARE NOT WILLING TO WORK FOR IT.

If you have high standards then you should be willing to pay the price. Don't look for something that is not paralleled to the equivalent of your work.If you work lazy today then don't expect huge amount of success. You only have the right to expect something big if you really work hard and beat your own ass. But if you are too lazy then it's fine but always remember that you will only get what you deserve. But always keep in mind that you don't own anything so whether you work hard or not... the default is still nothing. If you can get less... be happy about it, if you will get more... then be happy too. You will only gain regardless if you work hard or not because just like what I said... the default is nothing. You will never keep something forever, everything will be gone in just a matter of time so don't pressure yourself too much, don't look for perfection but at least try to become the best version of yourself.