Always remember that you're just a human and you are allowed to make a mistake, there is no perfect person in this world. Even the smartest and most intelligent person made a mistake. Even the leaders, presidents, most successful businessmen, star players made a mistake so who are you to think that you are not allowed to make one?
It's your privilege to make a mistake and not get executed of it yet you almost forgot that you are allowed to make one that is why you're so scared of trying something new, that is why you're so scared of failing. That kind of mindset is preventing you from being successful.
Make a lot of mistakes to learn a lot of lesson. Success is a trial and error process, if you can make a lot then you will get opportunities a lot, very simple process and very effective. But make sure that you will really learn the lesson you get from it and try to not repeat it anymore.
Making mistakes is fun especially if you will think of it as a learning curve. You must not be afraid to correct your mistakes, have the guts to right what is wrong and keep doing your thing.
The most successful people in this world has committed millions of mistakes but their motivation never went down. They still keep fighting for their dream, they still move and they never lose the sight of their dream. They were immune to what people say that is why they can still move despite of embarrassment and humiliation.
That is what you need to do... keep fighting, if you fall down then simply dust your self off and keep coming back.
Never get tired of getting rejected, humiliated and being told that you're not going to make it. Keep banging the door until it opens. Kick it, smash it, drill a hole on it... whatever you can think of... do it and never hesitate.
Life is all about moving forward, it is not about thinking about the mistakes that you did from the past and trying to correct it one by one. Have no regrets in making decisions. If you're wrong you're wrong, what is the big deal about it? are you going to make an improvement if you keep on crying about the mistakes that you did? is it the end of the world if you commit a mistake from the past?
The good thing about life is it will keep on living. Life will never wait for you if you keep on making dramas and shits. Life is so fast so never waste it just for a second. All of the mistakes that you did will be covered by a single success that you can achieve so never lose hope... ever. You always have the chance to make your life better.
IT'S SIMPLY FORGETTING. Just forget all the mistakes you did and never think that you're a bad person or incapable of doing something great. You can always change your mindset now, never believe in the past because it's just a history. Don't forget that you can forget, it's your special talent so use it. Pretend that it didn't happen and focus on the better things ahead of you.
You can only become better by making mistakes. You can become smarter, more experienced, tougher and you will have a thick skin because you will no longer be affected by making a lot of it. Experience the discomfort that making mistakes give to you, play with your emotions, just think that you're just playing a game. Have fun with it and just laugh if you're making a lot of it. You have no choice but to feel good about it, if you will make it a big deal then you will only get worse.
REMEMBER YOUR GOAL. Always try to remember your goal when things are not going well. Remember that everything is just part of the process even the worse ones. This is just a game, don't be too sensitive, take it seriously but don't ever feel bad whenever you are making mistakes and someone is not saying nice things to you. If you can remember your goal when things are not going well... you will find the hope again, you will continue working again. Your goal will be your savior.
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