9 WAYS ON HOW TO LESSEN THE BURDEN IN YOUR LIFE

You are stressed being more because there are some things that you are doing and not doing. You are the one who is making life difficult for you. Yes, life is difficult but it gets even more difficult because of your wrong decisions in life. You are carrying a burden that you made from the very beginning. But don't worry because if you made your life difficult then you can also make it very easy.

1. Be responsive. Don't hide from someone, face what needs to be faced right now. Respond to your clients questioning you about your work. Respond to your friends who are borrowing money from you, if you want to say NO then say no, don't let them wait for your answer. If your business partner is asking you something... respond. If you will not respond fast and make solutions, you will think about that problem all day long. Your burden will become heavier and it will only become lighter once you respond. Respond fast and make bold answers so people won't bugging you all day long.

2. Don't worry about small things. You're worrying a lot that is why your burden is getting heavier and heavier. You are worrying about the traffic, your rude co-worker, what other people say, your business, are you going to succeed or not? and the list goes on and on. This is the thing... if it will happen then it will happen. Don't worry too much because you are only missing the beauty of life by doing that. Just give your best, do everything you can and let go. If it is yours then it is yours, if you fail then you fail. But always keep in mind that your priority should be about feeling good regardless of what might happen to your life.

3. Don't expect too much. You're expecting too much that is why you're always thinking about something. You're expecting that it is going to become perfect, you're expecting that you will become very happy once you have it. And when you found out that you can't have it or it is not good as you expected... you feel bad, you're so disappointed. Don't expect too much, just go with the flow and appreciate what will come into your life. Don't wait for it too much, don't anticipate the next moment, just live your life and feel happy of what you have.

4. Stop being attached with something or someone. If you're so attached with someone who you think will help you or make you feel happy... you will only get disappointed if he didn't meet your expectations. If you're so attached with something like cars or money... you will never feel free. You will always feel defensive. For example, you are always thinking if someone will scratch your car, you're always think about what if if someone accidentally bump your car. You think negatively because you are so protective of your property which causes a lot of burden into your life.

5. Do it yourself. Do it yourself if you can. Never ask for help because the helper might only disappoint you. He may not show up when you need him, he might give you help but only little. You will only feel bad because you will feel that you've been betrayed. It is your fault in the very beginning, if you try to do it yourself then you will feel secured, the burden will go away.

6. Accept what is lacking in your life. Your life will never become perfect, not even close to perfect. Perfection is only in the mind, if you can accept that your life will never become perfect then you will feel perfect in some ways, your burden will go away. You will never focus on small things that bothers you, you will focus more on positive things. You will live happier because you knew that there will always be problems and you don't feel so bad if there is. You can cope up easily with any kind of problem especially the small ones. Never focus on what is lacking in your life and you will appreciate more what you have. You will feel so lucky and blessed. The burden of not having this or that will never make you feel less anymore.

7. Just do what makes you happy. Overwrite the feelings, overwrite the burden. Just do what makes you happy and all of your burdens will go away. Have you seen someone who has a lot of problems but seems like has no problem at all? Keep in mind that you're living in the moment, thinking about your problems is also not living because you're already thinking about the future. It doesn't mean that you will become irresponsible and not solve your problems anymore. You will just process your problem and still be happy for it. Do what makes you happy while solving your problems.

8. Pay all of your debts. Having debts is like living in hell. Pay your debts one by one so your mind will become free from worries. You don't need to pay them all at once. Just pay one by one, little by little. It is fun seeing your debts go away gradually. Having a financial freedom will give you a one of a kind peace of mind.

9. Always be honest. Be honest so you will not be hiding anything from anyone anymore. Hiding something will make you confused, you will always think about what words to say. You need to be consistent with your words or else people will call you a liar and will not trust you anymore. The truth shall set you free, forget about what they say and just be honest so you will have a peace of mind.