Feb 8, 2018

BEING SCARED MEANS YOU'RE GROWING

It's ok to feel fear, embrace fear, being scared only means that you're growing. Being scared means you're trying despite of feeling overwhelmed and insecure. It means you really want it, being scared is a sign that you're building courage little by little.

If you're just learning how to drive of course you will be afraid of accident, you will be afraid that some random car might bump you or might bump them. It's a sign of growth, don't be afraid to hold the steering wheel and just drive forward, drive as much as you can, you will still arrive at your desired destination. Have a heart, as simple as that. Just take it slowly if you need to, don't force the issue but always keep moving forward, always give your best and be aware of what is going on.

Feel happy if you're scared because it only means that growth is in front of you, it means that you need to do it, it is a sign that you need to take an action before it's too late. If you're no longer scared then it means you don't have to do it anymore, it means comfort has already taken place because you see a helping hand or the risk is not higher anymore. Embrace fear, eat it, love it, it's just a feeling... it will never kill you... ever.

If you're really scared then don't think at all, just enjoy the process, forget about the people around you, forget about everything, forget about what might happen and you will feel free. Ignore all the noises, ignore all the bull crap that is happening. Just keep growing, you can have it by daily experience, you can have it by living life and facing all the things that needs to be faced. Time is so fast, if you will let fears eat you then you are wasting your life.

Keep being scared, that is what it's all about. Being scared and facing it means you're growing, it means you'er leveling up. You need to experience those experience and if you will not face that fear now... there is a big chance that you might not experience it again in the future. Try to stay calm and relaxed, everything is going to be fine.

If you want more growth... you need to face the pressure, you need to face the pain and fear. There is no growth in comfort, you need to feel uncomfortable to be able to withstand any pressure in the future. Just always remember that you will never die, just keep moving forward because after you face that fear... you will be relieved, you will feel good, you will feel successful and fulfilled, you will become proud of yourself. There is nothing that you can't do if you will face it.

Those who did well in life has faced a real amount of pressure, they eat fear everyday, they are willing to become scared just to move to a different level. They don't mind failing, they don't care being criticized, they are willing to fail over and over again just to become successful once.

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