FAILURES AND SUCCESS ARE USELESS

Once you become emotional with something it controls you already, you're already a slave of it. That is why success and failure are overrated, it make people emotional, proud, depressed, weak or feeling entitled but at the end of the day it's just another useless image. It's just a picture in your head that is making you emotional. Failing makes you feel weak, it makes you feel like a loser but the truth is you can still label yourself as a winner even if you come up short at something. You fail because you think that you fail but if you think that you still win even if you didn't get the prize then you're still a winner. You feel like a loser because you let the rules and definitions of other people about winning get inside of your head. You join their group, you think like them and that is why you feel like them whenever you are failing. Same as success, why do you feel happy when you become successful? did you manage to unlock a never ending life? did you discover the fountain of youth? this is too simple and easy, work hard but never let failure and success define you, define yourself by the effort that you exert and the time that you put in to get better, as simple as that. Let your success be define by you only and not with prize, money or trophies. You can feel successful every single day if you really earn it, when you are focused on trying to get better at something. Don't think about winning or losing and start looking for experiences. Work hard but never attached yourself to anything, detach from the outcome, just enjoy the process, enjoy what you've been doing and keep going further as much as you can. Never let yourself be tied up on something that is not really important at all, what matters is the journey, you made yourself stronger with challenges, pain and risk, you make your mentality get stronger by not being afraid of failing. You take actions no matter what, you keep pushing even if you are tired, defeated, shy, anxious, scared or stressed. You never let emotion stop you because you just knew it is nothing, any feelings doesn't matter what all, the most important thing s execution and experience, you push yourself out there and you give yourself a chance to win but you don't care if you win or lose. You can't become successful because you're so afraid of failing, you keep failing because you're so attached to success. You are letting these things consume you to the point where you are hurting yourself already, the key is to become free, the key is to feel powerful and creative, the goal is to express yourself and never be scared of what the outcome might be. Never let anything or anyone decide how you feel, you feel good when you want to feel good and that is enough. Don't live for other people, don't do something for success... experience everything, embrace everything no matter how bad or good it is. 

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