No attachment, reaction, hatred, idea of revenge, validation, neediness and force. Being cold is power, it means you are free, it means you have the power to stop caring about something that is not a big deal at all. And even if it's really a big deal, so what? it should never hurt you, it should never make you feel something because you will only feel powerless the more you react and make dramas, it's for the weak. Blaming, reacting, shouting, crying like a bitch and looking for sympathy is only making you a loser even more. You need to be cold, be emotionless and stand like a rock, breathe like a statue and never let them feel that you are affected in a way. Never let them sense that you are angry, that is how to control any situation. If you are reactive and always being emotional then you're in big trouble, people will smell your weakness, you will have a hard time surviving a day because you will always think about what offends you. Train yourself to get better at being cold, non reactive and always focusing on what really matters. What they say doesn't matter. Rejection, disrespect, cold treatment from people, raised eyebrows from other people doesn't matter, what matters is you still take care of your mind and focus it on the things that you really want. If you are focused on what you really want and really dedicated on getting it then you will have no time for useless arguments and problems anymore, you will just deal with what you need to be focusing on like growing, improving and getting your goals, you will never care about your emotions anymore because it is the real culprit of failure, it is the real source of problems not the outside events. You need to start training yourself to get stronger by not giving any energy to anything that is bothering you, you need to be mindful of what you have and appreciate that you are blessed to have a chance to get better now and that improvement will only happen if you focus on being cold, not reactive and not giving a damn to useless things that doesn't matter at all. Keep fighting for this identity, not everything needs your attention, if you want to have a great life you need to have a disciplined mind that filters out what is useless. Not every post about politics needs your attention, not everything that is against your values needs attention. Be mindful where your time and energy goes because that will affect your destination. You need to be smart where you place your eyes because that will affect your life. It all depends on how you discipline yourself. Stay committed to what makes you stronger, better, smarter and richer. Never give any nonsense subjects a place in your head.
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