DECODE FEAR AND PAIN

Playing safe is the number one game of losers. You must face your fears if you want to advance in life, if you keep on playing safe you will not be rewarded you will have regrets in the end. Pain is a recipe for growth, if there is no pain there will be no gain, it sounds masochistic but it is the reality. It's painful because you are prioritizing your feelings, you are not using your mind. If you can use your mind and let it takeover then you will feel lesser pain. Decode your fears, when you are feeling it ask yourself why are you being scared? you are scared because of being afraid to get judged? making a mistake? failing? embarrassing yourself? looking like a fool? looking like you don't deserve to be there? You are only scaring yourself. Pain and discomfort is teaching you something, fear is the path, endurance is the key, moving forward is the best reaction. If something is hard it is teaching you something, you can learn, you will get stronger, all you have to do is stick with it and stop looking for comfort. You don't need to feel good and comfortable all the time you need to be comfortable feeling uncomfortable and never give up. Just keep being you, do your thing, stay positive and know what you really want. Fear is the result of inaction, if you want your fears to subside you need to move and take the risk, that is the only way to remove fears. Decide that you're not going to quit even if you feel so weak, decide that you will move forward no matter what. Decide that you're going to do it your way. pain is your friend, it is the only thing that will give you strength, control, mind power and leverage. Fear is the compass, it will show you the way, it will make you tougher and more experienced if you face it and never back down. Decode fear and pain, study it, stud your reactions and decisions, study your calmness while facing it. It is not there to make you fail or serve you a punishment, it is there to give you something, it will upgrade your mentality and experience, it will make you a beast if you learn how to manage it and stop resisting it. So whenever work is hard, use that pain to get stronger, ingrain it into your system, make it a belief, make it a foundation that you can do anything even if it is hard. Whenever you are scared, just stay calm and never back down, never go hope, never look for a hiding place, keep exposing yourself, embarrass yourself, make yourself vulnerable to failure and humiliation, just stay calm while feeling it, you will see that it is not that bad, you will find out that fear is controlling you because you want to go away and hide somewhere, feel it, look it in the eye, feel yourself, you will discover that it's not a big deal, you will find out that it is nothing but an illusion, it is powerless, it becomes powerful because you give it a power, if you want to detonate it then face it, feel it and never care about the future. 

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