Don't argue, don't say disrespectful and hurtful words, don't shout, don't smirk, don't say anything, don't fight, don't force them to believe you, don't brag, don't be arrogant, don't make a revenge... just be quiet and don't believe in them. If you don't like their ideas, if you hate what is being offered, if you don't like the way you are being treated... just be quiet and disrespect them silently. Don't open your mouth, don't back stab them, just keep it to yourself, don't feel anything about it, don't react to it. Just believe in your own ideas and never give the any power, don't follow them, don't show them that you are scared, don't hate them, don't pull them down, just believe in yourself and do what you can do. Move forward all the time and trust that you can do it your way.
IT'S JUST A GAME
It's just a matter of controlling your emotions and not feeling anything about what you don't like. If you can change your focus from what you don't want to what you want then you will become invincible. It's a waste of energy to focus on people or things that you don't like. Learn to walk away, learn to be quiet while he is talking, learn to feel like a rock that doesn't move or doesn't react. You don't need to follow, you don't need to be friends with all people. This is just a game, this life is just a game of who will survive until the end. It's not about being dominant, it's about who can stand still in the end. If you can just learn how to feel nothing about something then you will become powerful. Even if the person you don't like is in front of you... you can feel unthreatened by just being silent and not moving. Just don't react and they will stop disrespecting you. Don't give them attention, don't give them time, don't give them your energy, disrespect them by treating like they're nothing and irrelevant to your life.
STOP BEING A YES MAN
You can go home, you can unfollow the crowd, you can resign, you can choose another path, you can start all over again, you can do it your way. Stop being a yes man because it's only making you weaker and weaker everyday. Just do what your heart tells you to do so. You have the power to decide for yourself, stop letting them bully you. You can fight back by just walking away, by just being quiet and treating them cold. They will feel that you're not liking the situation by being quiet and not laughing with their jokes or not even agreeing with what they say. If you need to stop talking to somebody forever then do it, you don't need to be nice, you don't need to be likeable, you need to protect yourself and stop letting people treat you like a nobody. If you don't like what's going on then don't allow it.
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF WITH ALL YOUR HEART
You're letting people do what they want to do with you because you don't believe in yourself. You're following their orders, pace, rhythm, timing, commands and abuse because you don't believe in yourself. You're so scared of being left behind, you're so scared of doing it alone. But if you believe that hard work can save you, if you believe in yourself then no power can control you. No man can become powerful over you, you will be in total control of your life. If you can believe in yourself then you will never beg for someone's respect anymore, you don' care if someone doesn't like you.
NO EXCUSES FOR YOU TO NOT SUCCEED
It's all in your hands, you're in control of your life, people disrespect you because you're not making an impact at all. Your value was low, you're needy, you're full of dramas and shitty stuff, you're not going anywhere. But if you will pursue a big goal and become something else then people will feel that you're a man on a mission, they will feel your energy, they will feel that you're not an easy person to mess with. At the end of the day they will only respect you if you're doing well in your life, if you're succeeding and getting ahead in life. If you have nothing to offer then you are nothing. If you don't want to get stomped on by different people then learn to make yourself better each day, learn to become dependent and avoid being lazy.
STOP CHASING PEOPLE
Chasing people leads to failures and disappointments. You don't need them as much as they don't need you. If you want people to like you and love you then you're in big trouble, it's a dangerous thing, you are lost if you keep on chasing people because you will be forced to go to the direction that you don't want to go. You will be used, you will lose your power, you will not be able to express yourself honestly. You will become fake, you will become miserable because your happiness depends on them.
PLAY THESE FOOLS
Agree with them on a meeting then don't go. Say you're going to lend them some money tomorrow then make an excuse why you can't lend the money. Agree with their suggestions but don't believe it. If they texted you don't reply, if they invited you say you will go but don't go. Learn to play with these fools silently. If they are playing you then learn how to play back, it's just a game, it's just a matter of who will become emotionally invested. Promise them something then don't give it. Laugh at their jokes for a second then stop right away and look at your phone and get busy, pretend that you're listening then make them feel that you're not present. Once you play them make sure you won't feel anything when they try to make a revenge, be ready for anything, be ready to ignore them again. It's too simple, make them feel less important, make them feel that you can ignore them anytime you want to.
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