There will be times, actually most of the time there will be uncertainties or unexpected events, there will be changes, there will be obstacles, there will be disturbances and distractions, there will be people who will try to stop you or disrespect you and it's your duty to embrace them without acting violently, accept it for what it is and just move on. Never give energy to something that you don't like, never give attention to things that doesn't even matter at all. Life will always be uncomfortable and you need to get use to it.
MOVING WILL KEEP YOU SANE AND MOTIVATED
There is no other way to feel happier when you're sad and that's taking actions. You will feel lazy in the beginning but once you're moving... you will become more confident, you will have more energy. If you're not doing anything, if you're procrastinating all the time then you will go crazy, the reason why people were so depressed is because they're not moving at all. They're stuck because all they do is watch TV, scroll on facebook and eat a lot of junk food. And that's why they're lost all the time, they're being use by external things. Never let your mind overthink, just start now and follow through all the way. If you feel bad now just move, if you feel so lazy now just move. Moving will change your rhythm, moving will give you more energy.
BEING SLOW DOESN'T MATTER
being slow, being lost, always failing, making a lot of mistakes doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is you're not stopping. Stay consistent, stay hungry, stay humble and trust the grind. Just start it and look for the finish, take it one step at a time, enjoy the baby steps and never stop even if it is hard. Moving is easy if you will just decide that you're going to move, if your mind is in the present moment then there will be zero resistance. Just enjoy taking steps, enjoy doing it without having to think about the future. Train yourself to become a doer, become a mover not a watcher nor a waiter. Move even if you feel tired and lazy, move even if you are scared, it's too simple. Success' formula is simply about moving and nothing else.
STRESS IS THE REQUIREMENT FOR GROWTH
You have to learn how to be ok with stress so that it will have lesser effect on you. You have to accept that life is really hard and challenging, your enemy is your mind, if you keep on thinking that something is hard then it will be hard but if you can make yourself believe that it is easy then it will be easy. Jus keep pushing forward whenever you feel stressed, it will go away if you're moving, just laugh at it, be aware of how you feel and never resist it, embrace it, welcome it and never try to push it away. the more you want it to go away the stronger it gets, it will go away automatically, it will be gone so fast if you're not making dramas about it. Stop complaining, stop acting like a victim and push yourself to do what is needed. If you want to become a lion, if you want to become a beast then you better do what most people can't do... embrace the discomfort and try to make something out of it.
DON'T FOCUS ON THINGS THAT ARE OUTSIDE OF YOUR CONTROL
Don't focus on the outcome, don't focus on what people are trying to say, don't focus on pleasing people, don't focus on trying to control everything. The only things you can control are your emotions and thoughts, it's your efforts that matters and not anything outside of it. If you will just focus on your own energy, if you will just focus on what you can do then you will become very powerful.
COURAGE IS YOUR CAPITAL
Courage doesn't mean you're not feeling any fear, it means you keep on trying. You show up and you use all of your skills and energy to finish something. It means you embrace your fears and you still do what you need to do, you don' make excuses, you don't look for something to blame if you fail, you take full responsibility of your situation and you're doing everything you can to succeed in life. Just be brave for a little bit and give yourself a chance to win. You have to remind yourself that if you wanted to win then you need to battle your emotions, you need to battle doubts and fears, it will be really uncomfortable so you need to train yourself how to manage or even enjoy these emotions.
LIFE IS ALL ABOUT EMOTIONS
At the end of the day life is simply about emotions. People do this or do that because they want to feel a certain way, people become corrupt because they thought money can make them happy, leaders become greedy because they thought doing bad things will make them feel good, you buy a stupid Gucci product because you want to please others, you eat this or eat that because you wanted to reward yourself with pleasure, people wanted to feel good all the time, they wanted to feel comfortable, they wanted to look superior and good. If you can just be ok not being ok, if you can just be cool with nothing in your hands then you will become unstoppable. If you can embrace any embarrassment, humiliation, defeat, belittlement from other people, being last, being outcast then you will become powerful. Believe in the power of making sacrifices, believe in the power of delayed gratification. You don't need to reward yourself all the time, you don't need to feel good all the time, life is simply about breathing and living, there is nothing more to it. The definition of life is to live every single day, you don't need to become happy or sad.
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