Oct 16, 2022

DON'T LISTEN TO STORIES


A charming young guy on you tube is telling a story about how he made millions in just a few months, you get interested so you subscribe on his program only to learn that it was a scam. Your friend is telling you about a story of someone who made it to the top but you don't like the path, you tried it and stop after a few days, it's because you don't like that, you're forcing yourself to be like that because you're blinded with money and success. A story about a teenage millionaire, your entrepreneur, old man who became a billionaire, transgender who became popular, a you tuber who made billions... these are all useless stories because it will never help you. Stop listening to these stories because it's just a waste of time. You better use your time to create a better version of yourself instead of listening to these stories that will not even help you to get to the next level. 

They're making one million bucks a month, they gain one million subscribers in two weeks, they create an empire in just one year, he become a boss in just a few weeks, he made a platinum song in just one night, he found the love of his life by just posting some nudes in instagram. These stories are great but it's not your story and it can't be your story, it will never be your story so stop being envy at them and start living your own journey. Those stories are great but you have a different path, copying them and emulating their stories will only lead to tragedy. You have to solve your own puzzle, you have to create your own path and find a way how to succeed by yourself and following your heart. 

CREATE YOUR OWN STORY

The best story that was not written yet is your own story. Feel like a super hero, create your own process, reinvent yourself, use your imagination and force yourself to become something special. Imagine the best version of yourself and work everyday to become that person. Make a move, it's better to be moving than just watching, it's better to be creating than being a fan of a random stupid you tuber that will not help you when you're down. Be a fan of yourself, become delusional and believe that you too can get on top. It doesn't matter if you're your or old. It doesn't matter if you're broke, homeless, uneducated or has not talents at all. What matters is you have that burning desire to succeed. If you're already decided that you're going to do whatever it takes to become successful then you will become successful. You can be a star, you can be a zillionaire, you can become a popular tiktok fake influencer, it's all up to you if you're going to move. It's up to you if you will allow your fears to stop you or not. The power is in your hands, you have to decide that you're going to leave everything that is slowing you down and focus on taking actions instead. 

Appreciate your own story, you're the director and the movie star. You can fire anyone that you don't like, you can add anything that you want. You're in complete control with your story, you are the captain of your own ship and you never take orders from others. 

STOP SELLING YOURSELF SHORT

You're not a janitor forever, you're not a slave forever, you're not a follower forever, you're not someone who gets his ass kicked all the time. You can fight, you can change your life. You can leaver your present situation now and start shooting for the starts. There's no playing safe in this game of life, if you want to become big then you need to take big risks. No risk no reward, the bigger the risk the bigger the reward, remind yourself about this formula everyday. Life is fun, you need to play it the right way. Give yourself a chance to succeed and never settle for something that you don't even like at all. You only have one life why will you let your boss abuse you? why will you settle for a stinky job? why will you stop yourself from being successful? you have nothing to lose here, you have everything to gain. If you feel like there's nothing to lose then you can have everything. Just try, keep trying, never mind failure, don't be afraid to start again. 

LOSE YOUR MIND WITH THE PROCESS

Make sure you are going to the extreme, make sure you are doing what most people can't do. Lost your mind with the process. Don't worry if you lose it because you will find it back. Losing it in a positive way meaning you become obsess with the process and you live and die with it. You don't care about anything else, you're just fully invested with the process and you feel unstoppable everyday. You just do it, you just process it, you feel nothing about something outside of it. Your focus was insane, you are ok not eating or sleeping for a few days just to continue doing your thing. You believe it so much and you don't doubt it for a second. 

PLEASE YOURSELF

Don't live everyday trying to become great with the eyes of other people. You need to please yourself by being great and really giving your all, you will feel good about yourself if you're giving your best and really pushing yourself to the limits. If you're trying to please people then you will never be able to give your all because you will be scared to make mistakes or to look bad, you will become cautious, you will always think about what they're thinking and this kind of mentality will stop you. If you will please yourself, if you will be your number one critic then you will give your all every single second, you will be ashamed of yourself if you're slacking off or taking things for granted. Never care if it is hard, never care if you don't look perfect, just make sure you're giving your all, this kind of approach will make you happier, stronger and more proud of yourself. 

MAKE YOURSELF A KING

You don't need to command people, you don't need to have followers. The word king was just a metaphor, make yourself like a king, a real king, you've got to have that mentality. What does a real kind do? he face his fears, he face the discomfort, he conquers himself. Every time you are scared, push. Every time you are lazy, work. Every time you are hesitant... just decide. You need to be moving forward all the time because that is what life is all about. If you want to get ahead in life then you need to become faster and bolder. You've got to become aggressive, not one who overthinks and over analyze. Know what you want and go for it no matter what. Create your own story, make it the best story that everyone will hear. Make it colorful, fill it with intensity and exciting moments. 

THEY'RE HUMANS TOO

Stop idolizing people because it's making you weak, broke and slow. Those celebrities, BS influences, fake leaders were just humans too. You can do what they've been doing, you can fake your confidence too and be like them. You can even surpass their stupid achievements. Stop belittling yourself and be the man you wanted to be. Be brave, enjoy your life and entertain yourself with hard work, make yourself better each day. Watch yourself not other people, you should be more interested with yourself and your work no other people's lives. 

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