Don't worry if you're struggling because you're still improving, you're still evolving. It's part of the process, it's part of the design, to struggle means to grow, you're becoming tougher and wiser, you're becoming more experienced. Struggle will give you a wisdom that you can use to rise.
EVERY PROBLEM WILL MAKE YOU BETTER
Don't be afraid if you have a problem right now because it will only make you better. You're suffering is the key to winning. Embrace it and try to learn something from it, time will come and you will know what it happened to your life. Resistance and struggle makes you stronger, it's molding you into a different beast.
Every problem is just challenging your mind, it's not threatening your life nor trying to destroy you because you will be the one who will destroy yourself if you allow problems to make you weak or freeze. It's just trying to strengthen your mental game.
You're not stuck there forever, there will be a breakthrough if you keep believing and working harder to get your dreams.
WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO MAINTAIN A POSITIVE ATTITUDE WHILE STRUGGLING?
This is the key to avoid being forever stuck in a struggle... stay positive, what matters is you believe, what matters is you know that one day it's going to end. If you're a negative person then you will never try to force your way out anymore, having a negative mindset will avoid you from taking actions, you will refrain from giving a strong effort, you will just accept what it is and complain all the time. All you need to do is do something, never let a single thought stop you from moving. You can still move even if you're not sure of what you need to do, you can still create even if your mind is not thinking positive. Just know what you really want to happen and allow yourself to take actions. It's too simple, don't overthink and just let your body move.
Keep moving all the time even if you're stumbling or lost. Just don't stop, that's the key... keep moving forward all the time even if you feel so lost and uncomfortable. Trust me, you will find a way, everything will be alight in just a matter of time.
ONE FOOT FORWARD ALL THE TIME
Step on the gas, don't step on the brakes. Make sure you're doing something all the time. Make sure you stay positive and you focus on that one small action that you can do. Never underestimate the power of consistency, you can create some progress by simply being consistent with your actions. For example if you're trying to build some muscles in your body all you've got to do is lift some weights everyday, it doesn't matter if you're working super hard or just exerting a minimal effort, what matters is you're doing it everyday. Because you need to create a good habit to make some progress, you don't need to know the right steps you just need to establish a strong foundation that you can use everyday to improve your situation bit by bit.
Be a doer not a waiter. Losers keeps waiting all the time while winners always do something even if they're not sure what they will get. You don't need to rush here, you don't need to be fast, you just need to take it one day at a time and be happy with the small actions that you were able to do.
WHY DO PEOPLE ALWAYS FEEL LIKE THEY'RE STUGGLING?
Because they're not embracing the moment, they're always looking for comfort, they're always looking for results. They don't want to live in the moment and take it one step at a time. They want to win now, they want to finish the task now. If this is your mentality then you are likely to struggle for a long time. You have to enjoy the process even if it's hard. Struggling is all in the mind, if you can manage to smile while facing a difficult task and be happy with what you have then you're not struggling. Struggle is not real, people are just making dramas, people just don't want to experience any form of hardship in life.
Struggle is jus an illusion, you created it because you want to take shortcuts, you want an easy route, you don't want to face your responsibility.
ELIMINATE ALL OF YOUR EXCUSES
This is also one of the reasons why you can't get out of the rut you are in... you're full of funny excuses. You're only humiliating yourself every time you make an excuse, you're only putting yourself down even more. Excuses are for losers, it's for the weak. If you want to have a great life, if you want to feel powerful then stop making excuses. You can always solve anything, you can always move anytime you want to so why the hell will you choose excuses? Excuses doesn't make anything better, it's only making the situation uglier than what it is, it's for people who are always blaming other people, it's for people who are always complaining and seeing negativity in life. Look at those people who are always losing... they're full of funny excuses that no one believes, they're full of fantasies that will never ocme true.
BE BETTER THAN YOUR SITUATION
The reality is... you can always improve your situation, there is no way you can't improve your situation because you can move all the time. You can look for a job, you can lose 1 lb today, you can clean your house, you can study a little bit, you can say sorry to your partner, you can eat if you're hungry, you can take a bath if you're filthy, you can rearrange the appliances in your house, you can earn some dollars, you can build a small business. You can cook, you can wash the dishes, anything that is positive is making your situation better. The choice is yours, if you can be happy with the small improvement that you can do then you will go further. Life will be easier if you will just shut your mouth and just do what you need to do, stop running your mouth and start moving your body.
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