Getting bullied is an old story that was so overuse nowadays, a lot of people are using it just to get some attention. Some people are using it for marketing. This is not a sensitive topic but people are creating a narrative that it is something to be addressed, people are making it a big deal even if it is not.
STOP MAKING DRAMAS ABOUT YOU GETTING BULLIED
You're making a lot of dramas about it that's why you can't get out of the rut you are in, that's why they're still making fun of you. You're in the vibration of drama. You know what? everybody gets bullied at one point of their lives. Everybody was disrespected, everybody was treated unfairly, there is no way you become immune to people's bad behaviors, you will become a target at one point in your life and you have to accept that life really works out that way. You're not special, stop acting like you need a protection or attention from the whole world. Your story about getting bullied is too old and it's not selling anymore, change your thoughts, alter the narrative of your life getting bullied and change it to something special.
FIGHT BACK IF YOU WANT IT TO STOP
If you're really getting bullied and you don't want that kind of life anymore... learn to fight back. Fight fire with fire, be ready to feel the pain. It is what it is, if you want the bleeding to stop then you need to face the pain and be ready for a more painful situation. Trust me, when you fight back then you will instill fear into a bully. And even if you didn't win... once you send a message to a bully then he will think twice next time if he will bully you again. It's the only way, deal with it like a man or a woman. You will never die if you fight, you will even become courageous. If you will not deal about it then you will get bullied forever, you can act like a stone and feel nothing about it.. it also works or you can fight fire with fire and unleash the bad side of you. You can fight even if you are scared, you can go further and forget your identity. There's no other way but to fight back, you can't run away from it, you can't hide from it. The only way is to face it and do something about it.
NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR PAIN
So what if you're in pain? so what if you're not being treated fairly? the world doesn't care about how you feel, they don't even care. Some will pretend that they do but they will never help you until the end. The world doesn't care about a person who's making a lot of dramas, they will just laugh at you and make fun of you even more. Everyone is in pain right now, everyone experiences difficulty, who are you to complain about something that is normal? bullying is part of our lives. It's up to you if you will accept it or act like a weak kid that can't protect himself. It's your duty to solve it or else it will irritate you forever.
HAVING A VICTIM MINDSET WILL NEVER HELP
Sometimes you're not getting bullied anymore but because you're so used to it... you're always acting like a victim. You're always creating attention because you learned to love it and the sympathy that it creates. Bullying is just a normal subject, it already happened before, it already happened during the B.C era, this is nothing new, you will never progress if you always feel that you're getting bullied. You're not a victim, you are here to prevail and life a happy life. Stop talking about your stories about getting bullied, instead talk about your greatness. Stop crying about it and do something about it, it is what it is, life is mean and it will bring you down to your knees but how you will react is the main thing. It's either you fight back or whine and make dramas about it which is the attitude of the weak people. If you don't want to get pushed around all the time then learn how to face the bullying with all your courage, punch the bully into his mouth and make him feel the pain too. Once the bully felt the pain... he will stop bullying you, let him know that you're not playing around and you are here to fight back. Let them know that you're not a person that can be punked anytime they want to, let them know that you're no scrub.
BULLYING IS JUST A MARKETING SCHEME
A lot of people were using it to sell products, a lot of people were creating a story about bullying to promote themselves. Stories such as "they were bullied in the past and learned how to fight back and become successful". This story is too old but people are still biting it because it has a lot of dramas. Look at the number one selling books by different authors... it has a lot of fake bullying stories. Look at some popular celebrities nowadays... they have a lot of bullying stories themselves back in their childhood. So never believe in these stories about bullying until you witnessed it by yourself, it's just a drama that makes the world go round, it's just a myth that makes our lives spicier and more interesting.
MAKE YOURSELF STRONGER
Make yourself stronger mentally or physically. If you are strong mentally then bullying will never make you feel bad, you will just laugh at it and treat it as nothing. It will never make you feel anything if you are strong mentally. It you are stronger physically then you will be able to protect yourself, you will be able to fight and defend your life. Study karate, enroll in self defense schools, study some martial arts, make yourself confident by learning self defense that you can use when it's time to fight. If you love yourself then you will protect yourself, you will defend yourself and do whatever it takes to stop bullying instead of talking about it. Always remember that the best person to help you is yourself. The principal might not help you, your parents might not help you, your friends might be scared or maybe they're bullying you too. The only person the you can rely on the most is yourself, make yourself stronger and better.
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