IT'S OK IF YOU DON'T HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF

Just keep trying, that confidence will come anytime soon. It's ok if you don't have confidence in yourself for as long as you're willing to move and try. Because the truth of the matter is... everyone is not confident in the beginning, people just become confident because they give themselves a chance to become confident. 

Every entertainer, every big time basketball player, every speaker, every successful people was not confident in the beginning. They become confident because they keep taking actions and they take risks. Some great performers were even sweating on their first performance, they were anxious to death, they were not themselves they were trying hard but look where they are now... so confident and feeling invincible. 

DON'T BE AFRAID TO FAIL

Just enjoy failing because it means you're growing. Don't be afraid to fail and try again, just keep trying and trying, success will show up in just a matter of time. You will find your rhythm, you will establish your own pace and discover your own style. Failing is normal, be a tryer, it's better to be trying than not. Losers didn't even dare to try, critics are so afraid of failing, they don't chase their own dreams. Still feel confident no matter how many losses you have, still move forward and never stop until you can't try anymore. Because the more you try the more you will get hungrier, you will be able to do the impossible, success will be attracted to you naturally. Have the courage to fail, that's all you need. Because success is not guaranteed, failure is but if you give your heart and soul to your dream then at least you have a chance of winning. 

Everyone fails, every great person failed in the past. Who are you to be scared of failing? it's just another chapter of your life, it will never make you a bad man. If you keep on failing it means you are brave, you can swallow that bitter pill, you can feel proud of yourself even if you don't have results. You are proud because you knew you give everything you've got and you never cower like a clown. 

JUST SHOW UP AND TRY

Show up even if you're scared, show up even if you feel like you're not going to win. If you don't have confidence in yourself then just at least try to become calm, don't rush things, be in the moment. Being present will give you confidence little by little. There's no harm in trying, so what if they laugh at you, so what if you're losing again and again, it's your life, it's your privilege to try, that's the best thing about being alive and human... you can try as much as you want, you're the only one who can stop yourself. Just keep trying, use it as your advantage... you can try a million times while everyone already quit on their second or third failure. 

You're not a star, you are nothing, nobody will notice you if you fail so just try, don't ever take your opportunities and life for granted, try as much as you can even if you don't want it because you already failed a lot of times. Always remember that the millions of failures you experienced will be erased by one sweet victory. 

TREAT THIS LIFE LIKE A GAME

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't blame yourself, don't hate yourself if you can't do the right thing. Don't curse yourself id you don't feel confident, it's alright, there is nothing wrong with you. Just have fun, things will become easier if you're having fun. Give your best but don't treat it seriously, don't think that your life depends on it, free yourself from the outcome. Because it is really like a game, life is like a game, success is a game, you have nothing to lose if you're enjoying it instead of feeling bad about it because you're not getting what you want. Because if you're in a child like state of mind then you will become more creative and enduring, your stamina will become stronger and your energy will become unlimited, it will be like all fun and games to you. 

YOU WILL NEVER BECOME CONFIDENT EVERYDAY

Confidence come and go. Just because you are confident now doesn't mean you will feel confident forever. And just because you don't have confidence now doesn't mean you will become scared forever. Emotions are like visitors they come and go, they never stay in your body forever. So don't feel worried if you're not confident at all, you can become confident later. Just remember to stay present, stay still and never rush things, you can pause, you can take it slowly... confidence will come if you work for it. So do it despite of feeling not confident, that confidence will show up if you focus on what you're doing and give your very best. Confidence is overrated, you don't need it to win, all you need is willpower and determination. All you need is your body and a mindset to just keep trying no matter what.  

YOU'RE ONLY DEFEATED IF YOU GIVE UP

Giving up is not an option, quitters are losers, for as long as you're trying you will never be considered as defeated. It's easy to give up and go home, it's harder to continue but it's really possible to never quit. There is something you can do, you have a lot of time, nothing can stop you. All it takes is one step forward and another and another. You can take it slowly but don't ever stop. If you can make yourself like a machine that never stop then success will be guaranteed to you. And the reality is... you will have regrets in life if you give up, the opportunity that you let go will always be on your mind, it will haunt you in your dreams, it will never make you sleep. 

MINDSET IS WHAT YOU NEED

Confidence is not what you need, mindset is. If you have the right mindset of just trying and never giving up then success will be yours, your hands will be raised. Confidence will not be felt everyday so why bother to force yourself to feel it? there will be many days that you don't feel like winning, there will be many days when you feel overwhelmed and scared. But the mindset, the strong mindset... it will never change. You can fix your mindset into winning and it can be permanent forever, no matter what happens your fixed mindset will never be shaken and changed.