You're so pressured to become successful, you can't breathe anymore, you don't know what to do, you're panicking and freaking out. You always feel that every mistake is pushing you away from success, you're so conservative, you don't want to take risks because you feel that one mistake will labelled you as a failure. And that's why you can't make a progress, you let your feelings take over, you let your emotions come on top. Always keep moving forward, force yourself because if you're too soft on yourself and pampering your laziness then you will never be able to experience success. Success is a hard thing, remind yourself about this, if success was easy then everybody would have been a billionaire right now.
MIND IS THE ENEMY
Never let your mind create emotions that are not suppose to be felt. You are more stressed, pressured and lost because you let your mind create noise, you are entertaining thoughts that are not suppose to be entertained. Tame your mind, learn to control it. Once you control your mind everything will be alright. Mind is the enemy, it's making you weak, it's making you sick because of the thoughts that you put inside of your head.
Don't get me wrong, mind can be tamed but you can never control it all the time, mind will always be unpredictable, it will entertain a lot of negative thoughts all the time. The only way to control your mind is to never control it, don't resist negative thoughts but be aware that it is running inside of your head, once you are away that you're engaging with a lot of negativity... force your mind to think only about the things that you really want, don't think about the things that you don't want.
HUNT SUCCESS LIKE IT'S THE PREY AND YOU'RE THE PREDATOR
The truth is... you're hunting success but you're not making it scared, success is running away from you without fear. If you can hunt it like a prey then it will become tired of running, it will be yours anytime soon. Suffocate it, corner it, feel like you're the dominant, feel like you're in control. You can do this by working really really hard and having that laser sharp focus. Success will get tired of running away from you, so you should be the one who must put tremendous pressure on success, don't let it breathe. Make it tired until it can't run away from you anymore.
Because most of the time success is the one who's hunting you, it's not making itself close from you but it's hunting you by making you scared of failing, it's putting a lot of pressure on your shoulders because you're not working hard enough and you don't trust yourself.
Bully success, work hard and always think that you're going to win. Gather small wins every now and then, become a winner in life, never think about failing. Never think that your life revolves on success alone, don't be too needy of it, treat success like a normal thing. Don't be too proud of you become successful, don't feel too happy, just put a smile on your face and feel like it's just another day in your life. Never treat success as something special because you're only making yourself weak every time you do it, you will never be able to give your very best because you're too worried about failing and wasting your effort.
SUCCESS IS NOTHING
It's true, why will you feel so bad every time you fail? success is nothing, we've seen it time and time again from different people, it's too normal and common so why give it too much importance. Success is not the measure of your character, there is way too much outside of it. You will get success so fast if you will treat it as nothing, treat it as a common thing, don't feel too bad if you can't get it. Always give your very best but don't ever feel bad if you can't become successful, it's nothing, you're still the same person. And don't ever forget that you can try again tomorrow, you may not become successful now but you can always try tomorrow and tomorrow might be your lucky day.
Your life is not all about success. You can just live, do the basics, be a good person and that's it, what's so bad about that? if you're doing the right thing for yourself or family then what's so wrong about that? You only feel bad about yourself because you're comparing your life with other people's lives. So what if they have big houses and you're just renting in apartment? so what if they are big and you are small? so what if you're not making it in life? there is nothing wrong about being yourself.
So if you want to take away the pressure in your life... don't strive to become successful fast, strive to become the best version of yourself, be happy with what you have, be happy with what you can do and that's it. You don't need to pressure yourself, you don't need to feel depressed whenever you can't make a progress, giving your best is enough the rest is out of your control. If you become successful you become successful, if not then so what? it's not the end of the world, you can still do something better tomorrow, there is always another chance to redeem yourself.
YOU CAN GIVE SUCCESS YOUR OWN MEANING
Never let other people instill you their own definition of success. You can define your own success, you can earn 100 or 20 dollars today and still feel successful, You can simply complete a short training sessions today and feel successful, you can buy a cellphone with your own hard work and money and feel successful. It's not what about they taught you, it's about how you feel about yourself. There are some people who have millions but still feel like a failure, they still feel that there is something missing in their lives. Success can be felt easily by appreciating what you have in life, don't ever try to compare what you have with other people, simply appreciate what you have and never ever look for what is missing in your life.
Success will become harder if you will let other people give their own meaning to your success. Don't let them influence your mind, forget what they say, if you really feel successful being the 4th place in your class so be it, feel proud of it and just strive to become better next time if you still have a chance. Don't let other people belittle you, just ignore them, never let them have a place in your head. If you really feel good about your small achievement then you're already successful.
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