If you're losing confidence in yourself because you've been waiting for a long time to have a big break yet you can't see any signs of winning then my only advise to you is just keep going. If you can't believe in yourself anymore then just focus on taking actions, focus on the activities that at least give you some hope or momentum. Because at the end of the day you will do something, you will spend your time for something, why not spend it on activities that will somehow make you feel a little bit better. What are these activities? activities that has a potential to give you something in return, activities that are the closest thing to success. Watching tv will never make you closer to success, working on something for your goal does. Overthinking does not give you any momentum, starting to take actions does. It's simply about choosing the right actions even if you feel that it's not working. It's better to be doing something right than doing something wrong, you know better so you have to do it. It's much better to be working hard than to feeling lazy all day. You can't complain that the world is unfair and mean if you haven't given everything you've got yet.
Looking for a job gives you a small hope, blaming the economy does not. Walking and jogging makes you feel much better, basking yourself in fear and negativity does not. Doing anything for your dream gives you a momentum and chance, getting jealous with other people doesn't.
ANY ACTIVITY CAN MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD
It can be simply cleaning your room or taking a bath or walking outside. Any positive activity can create positive hormones in your body that will make you happier and motivated. Always remember that if it makes you feel good and it's a positive activity then it is the right path. If you can get a little reward from it in the future like money, good health, mental toughness, good life then it's the right path, engage on that activity as much as possible. For as long as you're moving and the action is positive then you are right, the momentum will be made. It can be a simple reading or a simple meditation, always remember that you will feel good once you start doing something and finishing it.
ACTION CURES DEPRESSION
Forget about perfection, forget if you will be appreciated by people, forget the results, forget the money, forget everything and just do something. Taking actions cures depression. Most people are depressed because they are stuck, they can't take actions why? because they're always expecting something in return for the effort that they will exert. They don't want to make a move unless there is a guarantee that they will get what they want and that makes them depressed even more. You have to move and forget the outcome, forget about being successful, forget about your life getting better and just move, forget the future and focus on the now.
It's so much fun moving, you have nothing to lose if you move, you have everything to gain. You will become stronger, you will forget all of your problems, you will get entertained, your skills will become better, you will improve as a human being. The main reason why people are so depressed is because they're holding themselves back.
Whenever you feel bad, whenever you feel depressed... do something, start now, don't just let your day be over without doing something positive. The real challenge here is forcing yourself to move, it's not the difficulty of the challenge... it's forcing yourself to take actions whenever you feel so lazy.
NO REGRETS
This is the best quotes ever to move forward and make progress in life. I'm sure you have a lot of bad decisions in the past but if you dwell on them then you will never make a progress anymore, you will get stuck on that thought and you will get depressed even more. No regrets, if you made a mistake, if you hurt someone just say sorry and then move on, resent with your heart and then move on. Forget everything you did in the past. If you failed because of laziness, if you lost your money, if you got sick because of abusing your body... just let it go, don't blame yourself, stop trying to remember the past, strop trying to change the past because you can never do it. Don't wish for things to change, don't wish for a rewind or a retry, just move forward and appreciate what is in front of you, live in the present moment... this is how a new life will start to show up. Fully accept your life, forget all the mistakes you did in the past even the most stupid ones, it's part of your life, without those mistakes you will never learn anything.
TAKE WHAT YOU HAVE
Whatever you have, whatever skill you have, what type of house you have, how much money you have, how much strength you have, whatever chances you have... take it. Appreciate your decisions, appreciate what you've accomplish and never compare yourself to anybody, never compare everything you did to anybody. What you have is enough, don't look at somebody else's life because comparison is the thief of joy, never think that what you get is lesser then what you can really get, what you get is what you get it's enough to make you happy, be satisfied of what you have because that's the true happiness. Because everytime you feel regretful of what you got then it means you are disrespecting your life and capacity, you're not trusting yourself, you're belittling yourself. Be proud of what you did and what you have, it's all you got so why look for something more?
Every decision is the right decision for as long as you're making a stand for it and doing everything to arrange your life in a better way. Don't underestimate everything you have in your life because that is weakness, real strength is appreciating everything you have and trusting that your life will be ok no matter what.
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