If there is a conflict, if there is a struggle it means there is growth, it means something is about to evolve. Just like in studying in college there will always be a lesson that you cannot get, there will be a topic that you are so slow to pick up but that's ok, if you keep pushing and searching for answers then you will get it, as simple as that. It's just a matter of working hard and putting yourself on the best position to succeed, because you will never evolve if you will not face those conflicts. It is what it is, it's hard and uncomfortable but it's the only way to grow, stress and conflict means good things are about to happen.
DON'T BE AFRAID TO FACE THE PAIN
If there is a conflict between you and your neighbor... face it, if you need to confront him... face it, it's ok to feel scared a little bit. It's just a feeling, it can never kill you. Don't be scared of any emotion because it's all part of your life, you need those emotions. You can't have a smooth sailing journey, harder times is more than easy times and you need to accept it. So be thankful when things are easier but never relax. Pain is all part of the game, without it there will be no growth. When you're suffering but still pushing... you will get something, you will be rewarded. Success is not about who's the most talented out there, it's about who can take the pain and survive and thrive, as simple as it sounds. So if you're really struggling now... be happy because success is on the way, it's only just a matter of time before you get it, and for sure you will get , it's yours. You will get what you are looking for. It's hard because it will take a lot of discipline and effort but every time you work hard instead of looking for instagram models on the internet... you are becoming a different beast. Discipline and hard work creates beasts. So if you're not struggling then it means you're not growing. If you want your life to go to another level then be the best version of yourself. Just keep in your mind that taking action despite of feeling pain is the only path to growth. That's why it's hard to study, that's why it's hard to exercise, that's why it's hard to practice delayed gratification... most people wants to have fun and that's why they are not even growing.
Pain can never kill you, it can only make you stronger so face it as much as you can and see the meaning behind it, feel it and think that it's only making you stronger and better.
FACE SOMETHING THAT'S STOPPING YOU
If you want to have a better life, if you want to have an organized life... face something that's stopping you, deal with it and finish it. Your homework is stopping you to play video games, face it. Your fear is stopping you to chase your dreams, face it. Your debts are stopping you to have a new life, face it and pay it. Your opponent is stopping you to win, face it. Your problems are stopping you to feel better, face it. Your pending tasks are stopping you from having a peace of mind, face it. You need to deal what needs to be dealt with, you need to stop hiding from responsibilities. You know the right things to do and you need to do it, as simple as that. Resistance creates opportunities. What stopping you is strengthening you so keep pushing, push even if it's hard, do something about it, enjoy a slow pace. You can take it one step at a time, feel it bit by bit. Deal with something that is stopping you, do everything you can to eliminate it by taking the right actions, don't ignore it, don't pretend that it's alright hiding away from it... face it like a real man.
THE TRUTH IS YOU'RE STOPPING YOURSELF
You're too lazy and allergic, you're allergic to taking actions, you feel like a king but you have no crown, you're too picky and wishy washy, you need to change your attitude if you want a new reality. You're the one who's stopping yourself not the circumstances. Change your mindset, change your attitude and you will experience something different. If you want to become unstoppable then stop stopping yourself, stop holding yourself back and do everything you can to get what you want and be what you wanted to be. If you will just choose to move every now and then and make all of your actions related to your goal then you will become super unstoppable, sky is the limit for you, you will achieve anything you want. It's all about who can focus on the conflict and endure the pain while taking actions that will have his hands raise. So stop sopping yourself, every time you blame people and point finger to others you are only making yourself look like a victim, you're not a victim, you are not weak, you can take actions and do something to make your life better, it's just up to you if you will allow yourself to take matters into your own hands and force fate.
DON'T LOOK FOR COMFORT
Comfort is for the weak, looking for an easy path or situation is for people who can't deal with the stressful situation surrounding them. Face the discomfort and grow from it, once you can accept it... you will become more and more powerful. Always looking for comfort will only make you hate your situation, embrace everything around you and just try to make your situation a little bit better each and everyday if you can. If you can't do something about it then just embrace it and focus on some other things which makes you powerful. Because it's not really uncomfortable, you're just making too much drama out of it, you're looking for sympathy, you're acting like a victim. Stop overreacting and just deal with it, it will change in just a matter of time.
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