Peace of mind is not real, it's something that is too elusive, maybe it's just an illusion. The world is full of chaos, the world is mean, there will always be something that will disturb you and you have to accept it, you have to deal with it. That's part of the game, that's part of life, and it's your duty to neutralize or somehow lessen the noise, it's your duty to endure the noise and still move forward, do whatever it takes to succeed in life. Never let that noise in your head defeat you, never let it make you weak, use it as an instrument to make you stronger and better.
FORCE YOURSELF TO MOVE DESPITE OF THESE NOISES
You can be affected but not totally affected. Once you accept that you and your life is not perfect then you will be able to move again, you can try again, you will make progress again. Because always judging yourself and looking for perfection is what makes you stuck, if you're always focused on looking for the right place, right people, right feelings then you will never get ahead... as simple as that. Sometimes you have to accept that your life is mediocre and you have to still do your very best, you have to keep fighting despite of those imperfections. Because a lot of noise will try to take control of your mind, a lot of hate, a lot of guilt, a lot of disappointments and frustrations. These noises will test you and if you're not ready for it then you're in trouble, your life will go down. You have to force yourself to become better or at least do something, move, doing something will give you some progress.
Forget about peace of mind, forget about wanting everything to be well ironed out before you move, peace of mind and feeling smooth doesn't exist. Life is really like this, it's hard. And it becomes harder because you're always looking for what is missing in your life instead of trying make your life perfect. Because the truth is you can move your lazy ass, don't ever think that you're already stuck because you feel uncomfortable, there is still something you can do and you have to do it now even if it looks like a trash. Embrace imperfection, embrace not looking cool, embrace feeling like a crap and keep moving forward... that's all you need to do.
BE OPEN TO THE POSSIBILITY THAT YOU WILL FAIL
Accept failure and you will become successful. It means you need to keep trying even if you're failing a lot of times, it means you need to focus on your goals no matter what. Most people can't even put themselves on the closest position to win because they don't want to fail, they were so scared of trying. Let me tell you what, there is no harm in trying, there is only growth in there. And if you failed, so what? you're still alive, you can try again, you have a chance to win again, there is nothing to lose. Failing is ok, it will show you the way, it will make you smarter and a better person. People should fail a lot so that they will learn a lot.
FOCUS ON WHAT YOU REALLY WANT EVEN IF YOUR MIND IS CROWDED
Focus on what you really want, this is how to feel a little bit better. You are depressed because you focus on what you don't want. It's easy to do it because it's easy to get seduced by negativity. Know what you want, just focus on it, never want anything else, you have to be specific, you have to become single minded, don't want a lot of things, take them down one by one. One after the other, focus on just one thing until you get it and then focus on the next thing. Focus is a very powerful thing, the good news is you can still focus even if you don't have a peace of mind.
MONKS DOESN'T HAVE A PEACE OF MIND
If monks have a peace of mind then why are they still meditating for the whole day? they do it because they still feel bothered every once in a while, they still experience some problems. If they really have a peace of mind then why do they need a very quiet place. Put one monk in a crowded city of New York then that monk will go crazy for sure.
MILLIONAIRES DOESN'T HAVE A PEACE OF MIND
If millionaires have a peace of mind then why the hell are they going crazy if the stocks are falling down? if they really feel sure of themselves and the future then why are some of them trying to kill just for money and power? so it's ok if you're not a millionaire, there is nothing wrong with you. There is wrong with you if you're not doing anything but always striving for comfort. You have to move and take actions in order to maintain your sanity. Because the more you procrastinate and look for an escape... the more your mind will become busier but not progressing, it's crowded but not achieving anything. So don't feel jealous of these millionaires because most of them have some heavy heavy problems that are killing them.
ENJOY THE CHAOS
There will always be a problem, there will always be a challenge. You will always crave for more, you will still feel that there is something wrong or missing, you will never reach the state of peacefulness. It's all about how you handle the problems and stress, it's all about your perspective in life. If you can just accept that life is hard and there will always be distractions then life will become easier, it will be easy for you to accept that life works that way. You will never get stunned of anything, you know that everything is normal and bad things really happen to anyone. There is no immunity to chaos, it will visit your perfect life every now and then, it will overwhelm you, it will test your mental toughness.
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